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Have you ever felt like life was trying to hold you back, only to realize it was actually pushing you forward? Today’s guest, James Brackin IV, knows that feeling all too well. In his early 20's, James is the perfect example that wisdom comes with experience, not age. He has lived through immense loss, bet on himself, and built a life of purpose—all while inspiring others to do the same.

If you’ve ever questioned your path in life or felt unsure of what’s next, this episode is for you. Whether you’re struggling with fear of failure, looking for motivation to chase your dreams, or just need a reminder that your past does not define your future—this conversation will hit home. James shares how he transformed his pain into purpose, and his story just might inspire you to do the same.

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An Inspiring & Heartfelt Story

When James Bracken lost three pivotal male figures by age 13, he could’ve let grief define him. Instead, he became a certified life coach at 17, launched a globally recognized podcast, and now helps others rewrite their stories of struggle into strength.


In this raw, uplifting conversation, James reveals:

  1. How to shift from “Why is this happening to me?” to “How is this happening for me?”
  2. The $8,000 gamble that changed his trajectory (and why self-investment matters)
  3. Why suffering only stays suffering if you refuse to find meaning in it
  4. Practical strategies to silence self-doubt and embrace curiosity over fear


If you need an inspirational boost wrapped in a powerful story of resilience, this is the episode for you.


Powerful Takeaways:

  • Your past does not define your future – James explains how loss shaped him but did not limit him.
  • Betting on yourself pays off – Learn why investing in personal growth is the key to unlocking potential.
  • Your mindset is your superpower – Discover how reframing your challenges can turn obstacles into opportunities.


Hit play now and let James Bracken’s story remind you that if he can do it, you can too!


Today’s Featured Guest

James Brackin IV

James is a life coach, podcaster, and content creator dedicated to helping people step into their full potential. Despite experiencing deep loss at a young age, James refused to let his circumstances define him. Instead, he transformed his pain into purpose, building a coaching business and launching his podcast You Can Too, where he interviews top minds in personal development and shares his own journey of growth. His story is a testament to the power of mindset, resilience, and taking action toward the life you truly want.


Hey, it's Kevin!


I hope you enjoyed today's episode! If there is ever anything I can do for you, please don't hesitate to reach out. Below, you will find ALL the places and ALL the ways to connect!


  • I would LOVE to hear from you!

    Show Notes

    CLICK TO RECEIVE KEVIN'S WEEKLY NEWSLETTER

    Have you ever felt like life was trying to hold you back, only to realize it was actually pushing you forward? Today’s guest, James Brackin IV, knows that feeling all too well. In his early 20's, James is the perfect example that wisdom comes with experience, not age. He has lived through immense loss, bet on himself, and built a life of purpose—all while inspiring others to do the same.

    If you’ve ever questioned your path in life or felt unsure of what’s next, this episode is for you. Whether you’re struggling with fear of failure, looking for motivation to chase your dreams, or just need a reminder that your past does not define your future—this conversation will hit home. James shares how he transformed his pain into purpose, and his story just might inspire you to do the same.

    Looking for the Links?



    An Inspiring & Heartfelt Story

    When James Bracken lost three pivotal male figures by age 13, he could’ve let grief define him. Instead, he became a certified life coach at 17, launched a globally recognized podcast, and now helps others rewrite their stories of struggle into strength.


    In this raw, uplifting conversation, James reveals:

    1. How to shift from “Why is this happening to me?” to “How is this happening for me?”
    2. The $8,000 gamble that changed his trajectory (and why self-investment matters)
    3. Why suffering only stays suffering if you refuse to find meaning in it
    4. Practical strategies to silence self-doubt and embrace curiosity over fear


    If you need an inspirational boost wrapped in a powerful story of resilience, this is the episode for you.


    Powerful Takeaways:

    • Your past does not define your future – James explains how loss shaped him but did not limit him.
    • Betting on yourself pays off – Learn why investing in personal growth is the key to unlocking potential.
    • Your mindset is your superpower – Discover how reframing your challenges can turn obstacles into opportunities.


    Hit play now and let James Bracken’s story remind you that if he can do it, you can too!


    Today’s Featured Guest

    James Brackin IV

    James is a life coach, podcaster, and content creator dedicated to helping people step into their full potential. Despite experiencing deep loss at a young age, James refused to let his circumstances define him. Instead, he transformed his pain into purpose, building a coaching business and launching his podcast You Can Too, where he interviews top minds in personal development and shares his own journey of growth. His story is a testament to the power of mindset, resilience, and taking action toward the life you truly want.


    Hey, it's Kevin!


    I hope you enjoyed today's episode! If there is ever anything I can do for you, please don't hesitate to reach out. Below, you will find ALL the places and ALL the ways to connect!




    Stay Awesome! Live Inspired!

    © 2025 Grit, Grace, & Inspiration

    Show Transcript

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    Kevin Lowe: They say wisdom comes with age, but if that's the case, then how do you explain



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    Kevin Lowe: today's guest, James Bracken?



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    Kevin Lowe: He's in his early 20s, and yet he has more wisdom to share inside of the next



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    Kevin Lowe: 30 minutes than you could ever imagine.



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    Kevin Lowe: I'm talking about immense wisdom in overcoming loss, in choosing your own path,



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    Kevin Lowe: even if it seems uncertain at first.



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    Kevin Lowe: And maybe most importantly, the importance of you being willing to bet on yourself.



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    Kevin Lowe: If you could use a motivational boost wrapped up in a heartwarming story,



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    Kevin Lowe: all brought to us by a young man who's experienced all the pains of life.



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    Kevin Lowe: And yet standing here today, encouraging you to never give up,



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    Kevin Lowe: to never stop trying, to never stop pursuing your dreams.



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    Kevin Lowe: Then my friend, this is exactly the conversation you need to hear.



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    Kevin Lowe: And with that, my friend, as inspired by the name of James' own podcast,



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    Kevin Lowe: I want to remind you, if he can do it, you can too.



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    Kevin Lowe: I welcome you to episode 370.



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    Kevin Lowe: Hey, I'm your host, Kevin Lowe, and you are listening to Grit,



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    Kevin Lowe: Grace, and Inspiration.



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    Kevin Lowe: What is up? This is Kevin Lowe back again in the studio with another amazing guest.



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    Kevin Lowe: This time, it just so happens to be a guy named James Bracken.



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    Kevin Lowe: James, welcome to the studio.



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    James Brackin: It is so great to be with you, man. Thank you for having me.



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    Kevin Lowe: Absolutely. Well, well, James, I'm excited for us to get to explore your story.



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    Kevin Lowe: And I guess I always love to kind of start us off. And I figure the question



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    Kevin Lowe: I want to start off today with is,



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    Kevin Lowe: You know, I feel like in life, like when we achieve things, but we're either



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    Kevin Lowe: driven by one of two things.



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    Kevin Lowe: It's either the dreams that we have, the desires, or maybe it's the fears,



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    Kevin Lowe: anxieties that we're running away from.



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    Kevin Lowe: What do you feel like has been that that driving force for you?



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    James Brackin: Yeah, I mean, that's a great question, because I think more than ever this year, that's really changed.



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    James Brackin: Honestly, I think for the beginning and I think for a lot of people in the beginning,



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    James Brackin: the thing that pushes them is they don't want to be where they are.



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    James Brackin: So it's that fear of, I mean, we're going to be driven a lot more from going



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    James Brackin: away from something than we are to go towards something. I at least find that for a lot of people.



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    James Brackin: So for me, when I first started, it was definitely a fear of staying where I



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    James Brackin: was at, going toward what I saw people were at in their lives,



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    James Brackin: not enjoying what they were doing, just kind of coasting through life, really.



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    James Brackin: And this year, I've got to a point where I feel it's kind of the opposite now.



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    James Brackin: It kind of feels like more than ever, I'm just trying to figure out what excites



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    James Brackin: me each day. And how can I continuously be excited about life?



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    James Brackin: Because I mean, if we're not excited to wake up in the morning,



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    James Brackin: what are we doing here? Because this life is so quick, but we kind of live like



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    James Brackin: we're not going to die sometimes.



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    Kevin Lowe: Yes, exactly. No, I agree. And it's if you're like me, too, it can be so easy



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    Kevin Lowe: if you're not intentional to



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    Kevin Lowe: fall in that trap of just monotony with one week blending into the next.



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    James Brackin: Yeah, yeah, absolutely. I mean, especially when you work for yourself,



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    James Brackin: it's kind of like, oh, now I make my own hours.



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    James Brackin: And I think for a lot of people, they think that they want to be self-employed,



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    James Brackin: but what they really want is just like choice.



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    James Brackin: I don't think they really want to be self-employed. They just want choice to



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    James Brackin: be able to do what they get to do with their day.



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    James Brackin: And if that means working under somebody else, but still having,



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    James Brackin: you know, the clarity of what they get to do with their day and kind of deciding



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    James Brackin: what they get to do, I think a lot of people would be just in a much happier position.



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    Kevin Lowe: Yeah, absolutely. I agree 100%. Well, James, I would love to explore a little



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    Kevin Lowe: bit more of your story to kind of how you got to this point in your life. And.



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    Kevin Lowe: Would you mind talking with me about, because I know that I read that you actually



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    Kevin Lowe: had three losses in your family at a young age.



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    Kevin Lowe: Would you talk to me a little bit about that?



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    James Brackin: Yeah, absolutely. So my father, my uncle both passed at 37.



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    James Brackin: And I honestly did not realize how young that was until, you know,



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    James Brackin: I got a little bit older and started really just realizing how young that was.



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    James Brackin: I mean, I really couldn't comprehend it.



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    James Brackin: Then my grandfather passed away a few months before his retirement.



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    James Brackin: And that was what really hit me because I was a little bit older at that point.



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    James Brackin: And I see my father, my uncle both passed away.



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    James Brackin: All three were unexpected, by the way. So we weren't expecting any of this to



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    James Brackin: happen. It wasn't something that had happened and we were like, yeah, this makes sense.



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    James Brackin: It was just more so life kind of feeling like, why is this happening to me?



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    James Brackin: It's what it felt like for a long time.



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    James Brackin: And then I kind of started asking the question, how is this happening for me instead of against me?



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    James Brackin: And my life really started to change because those things that were once the



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    James Brackin: thing that felt like life was pushing me down, they were the exact things that



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    James Brackin: kind of helped me move forward in my life.



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    James Brackin: So yeah, three of the most important men passed away really young in my life.



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    Kevin Lowe: Yeah. How old were you when that happened?



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    James Brackin: My father, I was six. I think my uncle, I was around 10 or so.



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    James Brackin: And then my grandfather, I was probably 12, 13, something like that.



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    James Brackin: So I was still young for all of them.



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    James Brackin: I mean, I know when my father passed away, I don't even think,



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    James Brackin: like, I couldn't tell you what his voice sounded like. I've never really,



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    James Brackin: I don't feel like I've ever really met the man, to be honest.



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    Kevin Lowe: Wow. Wow. Maybe from your perspective now, when you kind of look back,



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    Kevin Lowe: because I think when we kind of go through life. It's just, it's our own norm.



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    Kevin Lowe: But when you look back on it now, like, can you see how maybe your life was



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    Kevin Lowe: impacted by those losses, your childhood?



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    James Brackin: Yeah, absolutely. I mean, I think for me, growing up, I didn't really have a role model, I guess.



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    James Brackin: And I think that was a blessing more than anything, because it helped me create



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    James Brackin: my own identity, kind of step into figure out what I wanted to do.



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    James Brackin: It wasn't having anyone's kind of expectations of what they wanted for me out



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    James Brackin: of life. It was more so me just being open minded about what could come of life.



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    James Brackin: And I think for me that that was such a blessing. And I didn't see it at the



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    James Brackin: time of just stepping into what I wanted to do.



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    James Brackin: And now I look back and I think, I mean, becoming a quote unquote life coach



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    James Brackin: at 17 years old, starting a podcast at the same time, going down a path that



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    James Brackin: I mean, was a complete left turn from what everyone else was doing when I graduated high school.



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    James Brackin: I think the thing that really gave me that, that ability to step out of my comfort



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    James Brackin: zone and step into things that, you know, felt most in alignment with me was



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    James Brackin: not having anyone ahead of me kind of saying, this is what you should do or



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    James Brackin: this is what you need to do. And I really look back at that as a blessing.



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    Kevin Lowe: Yeah, absolutely. I love,



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    Kevin Lowe: I love and appreciate that mindset tremendously. Now, you just said you became a life coach at 17.



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    James Brackin: Yeah.



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    Kevin Lowe: Talk to me, where did that even come from? Because that is not the typical thing.



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    James Brackin: Yeah, I know. Even now, like I'm 21 now and I feel like I've been,



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    James Brackin: I feel like I'm a veteran, but also a beginner at the same time.



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    James Brackin: Like I've been at it for so long, yet also so early on in my journey.



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    James Brackin: And I think for me, I mean, I was listening to podcasts, reading books,



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    James Brackin: stuff like that, just getting into the self-improvement industry.



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    James Brackin: And I was listening to a podcast. At the end of it, they were talking about



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    James Brackin: a coaching program. I had no



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    James Brackin: idea what that was. Didn't even know what a coach was. I just knew that.



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    James Brackin: Kind of felt really right. Like the way that they were explaining it,



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    James Brackin: what they were talking about, the past few years of like my transformation,



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    James Brackin: I really been able to, you know, transform myself with no external help outside



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    James Brackin: of, you know, books, audiobooks, stuff like that.



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    James Brackin: I thought, well, what could really happen if I stepped into hiring my own coach?



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    James Brackin: Like having someone outside of me that's ahead of me, that's,



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    James Brackin: you know, in a place that I want to go.



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    James Brackin: What would life look like if I could step into that? And so I invested more



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    James Brackin: money than I had in my bank account.



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    James Brackin: I mean, like I had about probably $3,000 in my bank account at the time.



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    James Brackin: And the coaching program was about $75,000, $8,000.



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    James Brackin: So didn't know how I was going to make it happen, but I put the down payment



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    James Brackin: on it. And man, my life really changed from that moment because when you pay, you pay attention.



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    James Brackin: And I realized the value of just investing in yourself. I really can't emphasize it enough.



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    James Brackin: And I became a coach from that point on. I mean, I took a couple of weeks of that.



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    James Brackin: I think it was a 10 week course of really just to learn how to become a coach,



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    James Brackin: how to help people get out of their own way and what coaching really is at the core of it.



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    James Brackin: Because a lot of people think it's just giving advice when I'm a 17 year old,



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    James Brackin: what advice do I have to give?



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    James Brackin: Because I barely lived a life is what a lot of people would see.



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    James Brackin: And the thing that I really came down to when my first mentor really taught



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    James Brackin: me was that I don't have to.



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    James Brackin: The answers, I just have to have the questions. And I think that that's where



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    James Brackin: through the podcast and through coaching, I've really been able to excel is



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    James Brackin: just kind of help people access a part of themselves through just asking really



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    James Brackin: intentional questions.



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    Kevin Lowe: Yeah, absolutely. I mean, if you think about it, it's kind of like,



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    Kevin Lowe: if we want to do sports analogy, I mean, the best coaches, they've never even played football.



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    Kevin Lowe: You know, I mean, yeah. Now, so when that happened at 17, were you still in high school?



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    James Brackin: I just about graduated high school. And that was the funny part was I just graduated high school.



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    James Brackin: I was getting into real estate thinking that that was going to be the thing for me.



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    James Brackin: And then I realized in getting into real estate that I hated doing that.



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    James Brackin: And I didn't, that was not going to be the path for me.



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    James Brackin: And so it was like this, I was at home and I didn't have anyone,



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    James Brackin: all the judgment that I was fearful of and wouldn't allow myself to step forward.



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    James Brackin: It was kind of like that moment in time where I realized, Hey,



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    James Brackin: this is like the perfect time because I'm not in school and all the people can



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    James Brackin: judge me, but I'm at least not going to be around them.



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    James Brackin: And it's just going to be kind of me in this, I guess, like monk mode,



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    James Brackin: that idea of just for a long time, right after high school.



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    James Brackin: I mean, that's all I did for six years or six months to a year straight was



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    James Brackin: just intentionally figure out how I can make this thing happen.



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    Kevin Lowe: Yeah, absolutely. Now, while you were in school, so say, you know,



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    Kevin Lowe: teenage years going into high school and stuff, did you ever have any ideas



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    Kevin Lowe: at that point, like what you thought you would want to do as a career?



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    James Brackin: You know, what's funny is when I was growing up, like a really,



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    James Brackin: really young age, my mom and my sister told me that I told them that I wanted



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    James Brackin: to be a motivational speaker.



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    James Brackin: Now, I don't remember ever saying that. I don't remember ever that being a thing that I wanted to do.



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    James Brackin: But to step into podcasting and coaching and definitely speaking might be a



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    James Brackin: thing in the future, but right now it just doesn't really excite me.



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    James Brackin: I'm still in that pathway. And it's funny that I ended up where I'm at right



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    James Brackin: now because I could have never predicted it. Because no, I mean,



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    James Brackin: when I was in high school, I just knew I didn't want to struggle.



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    James Brackin: I didn't want to think about money.



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    James Brackin: And I wasn't really thinking about making an impact. And then when I graduated



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    James Brackin: high school, that was the only thing I really thought about because I,



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    James Brackin: a coach told me, and this has stuck with me ever since, is that you do a disservice



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    James Brackin: by not bringing your unique gifts into the world.



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    James Brackin: I think everyone has something here on this earth and we're here for a reason,



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    James Brackin: but most of us aren't able to access that reason or most of us aren't able to believe in that.



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    James Brackin: And so having someone believe in me more than I believe in myself really helped



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    James Brackin: me access that for myself so



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    James Brackin: that I could, you know, help other people do that for themselves as well.



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    Kevin Lowe: Yeah, absolutely. Yeah.



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    Kevin Lowe: So my next kind of like one of the other last questions in regards to the life



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    Kevin Lowe: coaching thing is, how did you even come to that idea of this is the path I want to take?



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    James Brackin: It wasn't really. I mean, it wasn't. It's kind of like something like a path



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    James Brackin: that chose me more than I chose it, I guess, because I think for for many people,



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    James Brackin: opportunities show up in their life.



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    James Brackin: Right? So opportunities, synchronicities, things that if you were to really



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    James Brackin: look out for them, you'd notice them.



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    James Brackin: But I think for a lot of people, we're looking for all the things that reinforce



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    James Brackin: where we are rather than where we want to go.



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    James Brackin: And so when I was at the end of listening to one of the podcasts I was listening



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    James Brackin: to and they were talking about a coaching program, again, I had no idea what



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    James Brackin: that is. I have done a sales call.



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    James Brackin: They sold me. It just happened really quick. And from there,



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    James Brackin: it really changed my life because I put in the work from that point.



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    James Brackin: And so it wasn't really something that chose me. I just knew I wanted to start



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    James Brackin: a podcast. that definitely always felt in alignment with me.



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    James Brackin: I mean, at least from like my later ages, but that always felt in alignment.



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    James Brackin: And so I thought, well, if I'm gonna invest into a coaching program to become



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    James Brackin: a coach, I'm gonna have to start posting on social media. So I might as well



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    James Brackin: start a podcast at the same time.



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    James Brackin: And everything kind of just started from there, really, it wasn't really something



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    James Brackin: that I chose, but it was more so something that I felt chosen for.



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    James Brackin: I mean, I think the distinction I like to use is most people feel pushed in



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    James Brackin: their life, pushed towards something, and I felt pulled towards it.



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    James Brackin: And so it wasn't really my choice.



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    Kevin Lowe: Yeah, oh man, I love that so very much. Now, I want to ask you something,



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    Kevin Lowe: and I mean, I hope you take it the way that I mean it, is the fact that I learned



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    Kevin Lowe: in my own life, my own situation, that I kind of came up with this idea that



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    Kevin Lowe: things in our life that are bad,



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    Kevin Lowe: they're only really bad if we can't figure out how to make good come out of them.



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    Kevin Lowe: And I can't help but wonder for you taking this path, getting into coaching



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    Kevin Lowe: and then podcasting in this whole realm that you're in.



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    Kevin Lowe: Do you feel like you are here and are the person you are because of experiencing



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    Kevin Lowe: those three losses as a child?



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    James Brackin: I mean, I don't know if it's directly like causation correlation kind of thing.



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    James Brackin: I don't know if it's exactly why, but I definitely know that I took that meaning



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    James Brackin: from it. I think, I heard something recently and I don't remember,



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    James Brackin: it might've been Viktor Frankl, whoever it was, but suffering is only suffering



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    James Brackin: if you can't find the meaning in it.



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    James Brackin: And so for me, I found the meaning in it. And for so long, I didn't find the



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    James Brackin: meaning in it. I mean, it was the exact opposite, really.



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    James Brackin: It was, why is life coming after me? Why is life pushing me down?



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    James Brackin: Why is this happening to me? Just why, why, why questions.



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    James Brackin: And then I started asking how questions. So why is this happening to me versus



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    James Brackin: how is this happening for me?



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    James Brackin: And so then I just started to look forward in my life. And when you start to



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    James Brackin: look forward in your life, you start to see it because it's always there.



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    James Brackin: You just, you're not looking for it.



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    James Brackin: And so absolutely, I think everyone's pain turns to purpose if they are able



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    James Brackin: to turn it into purpose. And I just went out of my way to do so.



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    Kevin Lowe: Absolutely. You said that you have a sister, correct?



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    James Brackin: Yes.



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    Kevin Lowe: Did your sister handle things similar to you or differently?



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    James Brackin: It's funny. We kind of went down a similar path, but different approaches.



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    James Brackin: So she became a social worker, master's degree, social work,


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