Show Notes
Are you the kind of person who finds it easy to find hope and joy even in life’s toughest moments? If not, that's okay! In today’s episode, Alethea Felton shows us the beauty of embracing life’s hardest challenges with a perspective of abundance, hope, and transformation.
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Why Should You Listen?
We all face dark days—those moments when life’s challenges seem overwhelming. But what if you could change your perspective and see every obstacle as an opportunity for growth? This episode dives into how Alethea, who has faced illness, loss, and personal battles, uses her faith and resilience to navigate life's storms. She will inspire you to see life’s setbacks as setups for something greater.
What's This All About?
In this deeply moving episode, Kevin Lowe sits down with Alethea Felton as she shares her personal journey of overcoming serious health challenges, including a near-fatal diagnosis, and how her faith has shaped her path. Alethea’s story is one of resilience, hope, and a belief that life, no matter how difficult, is always worth celebrating.
From the profound loss of her two best friends to her own battle with autoimmune disease, Alethea reflects on how her darkest moments have helped her find light and purpose. Her ability to see the glass as overflowing is a lesson in optimism and courage that will inspire you to embrace your own challenges with grace and strength.
1 Last Note: Alethea Felton is one of the most amazing women you will ever have the chance to meet. She takes having a sunny disposition to a whole other level! This woman is shining so bright you might want to put on your sunglasses before pressing play!
What's In It For You?
- Discover how a shift in perspective can turn life’s hardest moments into powerful lessons of hope.
- Learn how to nurture your faith and inner strength to navigate through grief, illness, and personal struggles.
- Find out why it’s important to embrace every moment with gratitude and live fully, no matter what life throws your way.
Ready to flip your perspective and see life’s challenges as blessings? Listen now and let Alethea Felton guide you through her own POWER TRANSFORMATION!
Today’s Amazing Guest:
Alethea Felton is a speaker, podcast host, and advocate for resilience and transformation. Born into a world of adversity, Alethea has been no stranger to her own health challenges, including near-death experiences. Alethea has also had to endure the loss of two of her best friends.
And yet, through her faith and unwavering optimism, she has turned her life’s adversities into opportunities for growth and empowerment. Alethea now shares her story through speaking engagements and her podcast, "The Power Transformation Podcast," where she inspires others to see the beauty in life’s hardest moments.
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Show Transcript
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Kevin Lowe: You know that infamous question when people ask, how do you see the glass?
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Kevin Lowe: Is it half empty or half full?
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Kevin Lowe: Well, they didn't tell you that there's a third option.
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Kevin Lowe: What if you see the glass is overflowing?
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Kevin Lowe: Yeah, that is the view of today's guest, Alethea Felton.
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Kevin Lowe: She is going to show us that when she looks at the glass, she sees it as overflowing.
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Kevin Lowe: Overflowing with hope, with love, with excitement, and of transformation.
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Kevin Lowe: She is on a journey today to prove to you that no matter what you're going through
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Kevin Lowe: in life, that you'll get through it.
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Kevin Lowe: That there's always a rainbow after the rain. When you hear Aletheia speak for
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Kevin Lowe: the very first time, you're going to realize that she's like a ball of sunlight.
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Kevin Lowe: She's amazing. And yet, my friend, she's just like all of us, like you.
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Kevin Lowe: She's been through some really hard times in life.
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Kevin Lowe: But look where she is today, here to inspire you, to empower you,
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Kevin Lowe: to make the most of your life, to enjoy every day, because we never know what tomorrow will bring.
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Kevin Lowe: So why don't we all do our best possible to enjoy right now?
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Kevin Lowe: Now, remember, today's episode, today's interview, it's going to be powerful.
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Kevin Lowe: And I guarantee you that there's going to be a girlfriend, a mother,
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Kevin Lowe: an aunt, grandmother, sister, somebody who you think of that you know needs
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Kevin Lowe: to hear this message today.
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Kevin Lowe: Please share it with them. That would mean the world to me, and I know it would
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Kevin Lowe: mean the world to today's guest, Alethea.
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Kevin Lowe: And with that, my friend, I'm going to turn it over. It's episode 324. Let's go.
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Theme: Yo, are you ready to flip the script on life? Because those bad days,
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Theme: they're just doors to better days.
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Theme: And that's exactly what we do here at Grit, Grace, and Inspiration.
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Theme: Your host, Kevin Lowe, he's been flipping the script on his own life,
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Theme: turning over 20 years of being completely blind into straight-up inspiration,
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Theme: motivation, and encouragement just for you.
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Theme: So, kick back, relax, and let me introduce you to your host, Kevin Lowe.
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Kevin Lowe: Well, Miss Alethea, welcome to the podcast. It is such a pleasure to have you.
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Alethea Felton: Hey, Kevin. I am so excited to be here with you today, my friend.
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Kevin Lowe: Oh my goodness, absolutely. Well, I have been looking forward to this so much because you know what?
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Kevin Lowe: Even though I'm blind, I actually am wearing my sunglasses today because I feel
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Kevin Lowe: like you are like nothing but a ray of sunlight shining at me.
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Alethea Felton: Oh, well, look, all that I'm going to say is, you know it. And if I am the sun, then you are the moon.
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Alethea Felton: And both of us are reflecting and doing some awesome solar light things in this universe.
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Kevin Lowe: I love it. You can tell we think a lot of ourselves.
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Alethea Felton: Oh, my goodness.
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Kevin Lowe: Oh, my goodness. Well, I want to start off our conversation today.
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Kevin Lowe: And I'm going to throw it at you because I want you to tell me,
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Kevin Lowe: how would you describe who Alethea Felton is right now in your life?
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Alethea Felton: Who Alethea Felton is, is I am a self-assured,
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Alethea Felton: confident woman of God and faith who has evolved extraordinarily into knowing
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Alethea Felton: who I am and accepting my worth.
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Alethea Felton: I'm still learning more and more about me daily. I am a woman who is grateful
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Alethea Felton: for every single day that I get.
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Alethea Felton: I am also someone that absolutely loves the oceans, ocean life,
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Alethea Felton: mermaids. I don't care what anybody says.
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Alethea Felton: Mermaids are real and I will take that to the bank. So I love mermaids.
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Alethea Felton: I am a Southerner born and raised in Southeastern Virginia, right by the North
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Alethea Felton: Carolina line. So I am a Southerner, lived for many years in Washington, D.C.
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Alethea Felton: Proper, still have property up there and I still go up there once a month.
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Alethea Felton: But in terms of the core of who I am, I am just someone who is so grateful for
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Alethea Felton: every day that I'm given.
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Alethea Felton: I've always seen my glass as just not half full, but half full to overflowing.
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Alethea Felton: My cup runneth over so as to speak with my life. And that's who I am for sighted people.
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Alethea Felton: If anyone sees me, people automatically recognize that I wear,
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Alethea Felton: I have locks in terms of my hairstyle, but I also wear head wraps and very colorful ones.
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Alethea Felton: So people will see me with my colors.
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Alethea Felton: It can be gloomy outside and I still have on something bright and vibrant because
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Alethea Felton: I'm a colorful person, meaning that I just embrace the beauty of life, even on the dark days.
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Alethea Felton: So that's how I would describe who I am at this point in my life, Kevin.
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Kevin Lowe: Oh, my goodness. Well, I think that is an adequate description.
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Kevin Lowe: And I think this sets the stage for us today because, I mean,
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Kevin Lowe: you are such an amazing woman.
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Kevin Lowe: And what I'm anxious to discover, though, is kind of the story behind this woman.
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Kevin Lowe: What's led to this story?
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Kevin Lowe: Point in your life? Have you always been this just glowing ray of sunlight?
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Kevin Lowe: And so I guess I would love to ask if you would kind of take me back a little
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Kevin Lowe: bit in life, because as radiant as you are,
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Kevin Lowe: I don't want anybody to think that you haven't been, you know,
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Kevin Lowe: through your own hardships, because I know that you've dealt with many medical issues.
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Kevin Lowe: And so would you mind just kind of exploring that aspect of your life with us?
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Alethea Felton: Certainly, I will. So in terms of my life, I have definitely had my share of
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Alethea Felton: hardships and people are probably like, why is she laughing if she's had hardships?
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Alethea Felton: Because sometimes I say to myself, God, I know that they say that you make no
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Alethea Felton: mistakes and that you make all things perfect and you're perfect.
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Alethea Felton: But sometimes I said maybe God took a nap on the day that he made me.
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Alethea Felton: But uh.
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Alethea Felton: So I say that because part of my journey literally started at birth,
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Alethea Felton: where I was born as a baby with a defective liver, had a very severe case of jaundice.
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Alethea Felton: Now, jaundice is common in a lot of babies, but with mine, it was lingering.
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Alethea Felton: And I was quite sickly as a baby, as a kid growing up.
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Alethea Felton: And I always like to say that just because I had a defective liver,
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Alethea Felton: my parents did nothing to cause it.
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Alethea Felton: Turned out to be some type of genetic fluke and abnormality,
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Alethea Felton: which led to stunted growth in my early childhood.
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Alethea Felton: I'm tall now. I'm 5'9". So I had a major growth spurt when I was about 13.
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Alethea Felton: But I was very short as a kid, very sickly, always vomiting,
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Alethea Felton: always achy, not feeling well. And my mom used to take me to doctor after doctor.
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Alethea Felton: And my dad, frankly, at the time thought that my mom was just over exaggerating,
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Alethea Felton: but mom knew something wasn't right.
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Alethea Felton: So I grew up in the 80s and 90s. I'll be 43 August 27th. the 7th.
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Alethea Felton: And so I grew up in a time when they did the basics when it came to pediatrics.
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Alethea Felton: They just made sure you were breathing.
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Alethea Felton: And if you were breathing and alive, you were okay. So my mom tried to get me
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Alethea Felton: all of these different specialized tests. They never found anything.
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Alethea Felton: So my parents raised me to have a pretty much normal life.
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Alethea Felton: And kind of fast forward to my late 20s, I was was officially diagnosed with
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Alethea Felton: having Crohn's disease,
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Alethea Felton: as well as a liver condition named autoimmune hepatitis type 1 that eventually
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Alethea Felton: also led to primary sclerosing cholangitis,
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Alethea Felton: which is PSC, or hardening of the bile ducts, which can lead to complete and
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Alethea Felton: total liver failure, which could lead to either transplantation or death.
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Alethea Felton: And obviously, Kevin, you are not speaking to a spirit or a ghost. So I am still living.
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Alethea Felton: So that has been my journey where I have had multiple hospitalizations in my past.
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Alethea Felton: I was almost in hospice care at one point, planned my entire funeral,
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Alethea Felton: and I'm now here and I'm thriving.
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Alethea Felton: So that's the nuts and bolts of it.
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Kevin Lowe: Yeah. Wow. Now, during your childhood years and like teenage years and stuff,
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Kevin Lowe: Did these issues affect you from living a, you know, quote unquote,
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Kevin Lowe: like normal life as a kid?
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Alethea Felton: No, not at all.
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Alethea Felton: And pardon me for saying I was taking a drink of water, but no,
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Alethea Felton: it didn't. And I'll tell you why. Because.
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Alethea Felton: My parents could not get an official diagnosis. A lot of it was the home treatment care of things.
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Alethea Felton: My late grandmother, who I adore, this was my father's mother, she was a nurse.
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Alethea Felton: And so on times that I had to be home from school sick, oftentimes I would be with my grandma. mom.
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Alethea Felton: But even my sick days, my parents had to force me to stay home from school because
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Alethea Felton: I was such an overachiever.
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Alethea Felton: I was very active in school.
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Alethea Felton: In fact, growing up, I was big in theater and on the stage and music lessons
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Alethea Felton: and things of that nature.
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Alethea Felton: So I was in academia as well as the arts. And my parents always had it so that
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Alethea Felton: my sister and I lived a normal life.
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Alethea Felton: So although I always felt a certain kind of way and I never felt my best.
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Alethea Felton: I didn't think about the fact growing up that I had these conditions or that
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Alethea Felton: I was sick because I still made honor roll.
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Alethea Felton: I still was active in school.
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Alethea Felton: I still did things, normal things. And ironically, a lot of my close friends
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Alethea Felton: didn't even realize that I had these health conditions until I was an adult.
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Alethea Felton: Even some people in my family, I'm talking aunts and uncles and first cousins,
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Alethea Felton: didn't know that I had been going through these battles with sickness as a kid,
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Alethea Felton: Kevin, because my parents kept it private and they did everything they could
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Alethea Felton: to make me have a sense of normalcy.
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Alethea Felton: And you asked me earlier if I've always kind of had this kind of outlook.
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Alethea Felton: I would say yes. And I'll give you an example.
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Alethea Felton: Due to the liver conditions, some of my toenails are...
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Alethea Felton: Meaning that when I was born, some were like brown and black,
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Alethea Felton: which would freak out other people.
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Alethea Felton: It's not fungus, but it's a clear sign of liver disease.
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Alethea Felton: Make a long story short, when I was a toddler, I noticed it as a small kid.
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Alethea Felton: And Kevin, I thought God painted my toenails.
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Alethea Felton: I literally thought that. Oh my God, this is so cool. Like, wow,
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Alethea Felton: this is cool. God painted my toenails.
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Alethea Felton: That's what I thought. And it wasn't until I got older that I told my mom that
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Alethea Felton: that's what I thought as a kid.
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Alethea Felton: So I've always been the kind where I've seen the glass just really, really overflowing.
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Alethea Felton: And I've always saw things from a happier view.
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Alethea Felton: Even with rain, I absolutely love rain.
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Alethea Felton: A lot of people People don't. But my father taught me at a young age,
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Alethea Felton: we would literally open up the front door and be standing by the screen door.
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Alethea Felton: Yes, I said a screen door.
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Alethea Felton: And if anybody knows what that is, that's old school for you.
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Alethea Felton: We will open up and stand by the screen door and look at thunderstorms.
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Alethea Felton: And daddy would tell me he would say, although it's raining and it's cloudy
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Alethea Felton: and thundering outside, the sun always shines behind the clouds.
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Alethea Felton: And he was telling me this when I was like five and six.
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Alethea Felton: So he always told me without rain, we couldn't have grass. We couldn't have flowers.
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Alethea Felton: We couldn't have all of the beautiful verdant greenery.
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Alethea Felton: And so that was instilled in me as a young kid.
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Alethea Felton: And I always lived by it. Does it mean though, Kevin, that I didn't slump into
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Alethea Felton: moments of depression, sadness, and sorrow?
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Alethea Felton: Oh gosh, absolutely not. I
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Alethea Felton: definitely did. but overall, I've always had a more optimistic viewpoint.
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Kevin Lowe: Yeah, absolutely. I love it. And oh my gosh, I love that story about your dad with the rain.
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Kevin Lowe: I think that is so powerful, so amazing.
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Kevin Lowe: Talk to me a little bit about your faith journey. How has that played out in your life?
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Alethea Felton: My faith journey, yeah. Well, I grew up in a Christian household.
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Alethea Felton: And what I mean by that is we were followers of Jesus Christ.
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Alethea Felton: My father is a former psychiatric counselor as well as a former pastor.
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Alethea Felton: What I will say is that my sister and I did not follow that stereotypical preacher's
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Alethea Felton: kid upbringing of us being wild or rambunctious and all that kind of stuff.
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Alethea Felton: No, because with my my daddy having that psychiatric counselor background,
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Alethea Felton: he and my mother, they always talked with us about things.
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Alethea Felton: So we had the type of household where we could talk about any and everything.
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Alethea Felton: So as a young kid, I remember going to Sunday school, but I wasn't your typical
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Alethea Felton: Christian that just fell into whatever was told me. I questioned a lot.
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Alethea Felton: And I had a father and he's still living, but daddy was always so patient with
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Alethea Felton: me and explaining things.
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Alethea Felton: And so in terms of a religious practice, I graduated more towards teachings of Christ.
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Alethea Felton: However, if you look at it from a more spiritual standpoint,
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Alethea Felton: I did have times in my life where I had near death experiences.
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Alethea Felton: I've talked about them more recently on a couple of podcasts where I've literally
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Alethea Felton: seen things and had experiences in the supernatural, which solidified my faith even more.
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Alethea Felton: I didn't see Jesus in those occurrences, but those were times when I did encounter what I call angels.
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Alethea Felton: I've encountered spirits on the other side, and I've seen realms that I know were not dreams.
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Alethea Felton: And so that also gave me a piece about death where I don't fear death itself
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Alethea Felton: but also it taught me that.
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Alethea Felton: Throughout my life, I just always believed that God was within me.
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Alethea Felton: If I call myself a child of God, then that means that I share God's DNA.
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Alethea Felton: And so therefore, I have the power within myself that God has given me to be
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Alethea Felton: able to overcome any and every obstacle that comes my way.
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Alethea Felton: And that always guided me is that I don't see God necessarily as this high off
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Alethea Felton: being sitting in the clouds, but that God is everywhere. God is spirit. God is love.
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Alethea Felton: And so with that being said, Kevin, I've carried that principle of faith and
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Alethea Felton: just believing in the impossibilities turning into realities.
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Alethea Felton: And that's what my spiritual journey faith walk has been like. It is firm. It is solid.
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Alethea Felton: And I have found that the intimacy I have with God has come from the darkest
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Alethea Felton: moments of my life, whether it was from sickness,
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Alethea Felton: whether it was from grieving the deaths of two of my best friends,
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Alethea Felton: whether it was from heartache due to heartbreak, whatever it was,
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Alethea Felton: the most severe trials of my life have brought me closer to God.
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Kevin Lowe: Wow. So, so amazing. Amazing power.
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Kevin Lowe: So amazing. And such an amazing testimony.
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Kevin Lowe: Yeah, that's absolutely beautiful. Now, you just mentioned the loss of two of your best friends.
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Kevin Lowe: I want to ask you about that. But before we do, I want to ask you to explore
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Kevin Lowe: a little bit about something you said earlier that I have to go back to.
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Kevin Lowe: And that is the fact that you said at one point in time, you were preparing
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Kevin Lowe: to die. Will you talk to me about that?
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Alethea Felton: Yeah, sure. I certainly will. Back in 2012, May of 2012.
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Alethea Felton: So this is what, 12 years ago now. Now, May of 2012, I was still diagnosed with
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Alethea Felton: the autoimmune hepatitis type 1.
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Alethea Felton: And just to give people some education, autoimmune hepatitis is exactly what it is.
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Alethea Felton: It's not the type that you catch. It's not hep A, B, C, or anything like that.
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Alethea Felton: But it's literally where the liver fights itself with autoimmune hep.
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Alethea Felton: And because the liver thinks that it itself is a foreign object,
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Alethea Felton: it fights itself, overworks, and basically takes the liver into liver failure.
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Alethea Felton: At the time, I had a severe case of autoimmune hepatitis that led to full cirrhosis of the liver.
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Alethea Felton: I had had different ultrasounds. I had a fibro scan.
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Alethea Felton: I had MRIs, everything confirming this end-stage cirrhosis.
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Alethea Felton: But I didn't qualify for a transplant. It's a very complicated scale to even
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Alethea Felton: qualify for a transplant.
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Alethea Felton: That's a whole other episode. So, well, anyway, there had come a point where
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Alethea Felton: my hepatologist or my liver specialist at the time,
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Alethea Felton: she was taking all these tests and was the best of the best,
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Alethea Felton: but taking all these tests and she kind of broke protocol as a doctor.
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Alethea Felton: And I'm going to tell you how.
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Alethea Felton: Breaking it in a good way. when she had to come to me with the news that there
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Alethea Felton: was nothing more she could do.
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Alethea Felton: Kevin, I remember she looked at me square in the eyes and she kind of tilted
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Alethea Felton: her head back and just looked down on me.
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Alethea Felton: And she said to me, she said, although medically there's nothing more I can
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Alethea Felton: do, she said, but I believe God is not through with you yet.
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Kevin Lowe: Oh, wow.
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Alethea Felton: She said that she said God is not through with you yet. She said,
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Alethea Felton: scientifically, there's not much more I can do.
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Alethea Felton: She said, but I just have the biggest feeling that your life is not over.
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Alethea Felton: And so I need you right now to take this information I'm giving you and to,
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Alethea Felton: yes, talk to your loved ones, family and friends.
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Alethea Felton: But I need you to keep trusting God. And we had never really talked about faith or anything like that.
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Alethea Felton: So I remember that I was going in for a final biopsy just to confirm the whole stage for it.
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Alethea Felton: And when that happened, you know, she said that the next talks would have to be hospice care.
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Alethea Felton: So I remember calling everybody from my pastor, the people in my family,
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Alethea Felton: to my close friends, pretty much telling them.
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Alethea Felton: Hey, I need to prepare for hospice. This is what's happening.
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Alethea Felton: But even I had a feeling, Kevin, that my life wasn't over.
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Alethea Felton: But I started planning my funeral, getting arrangements in order, writing things down.
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Alethea Felton: And on the day of the biopsy, I had to be at the hospital very,
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Alethea Felton: very early that morning.
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Alethea Felton: And shortly after midnight, I remember feeling excruciating pain in my upper
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Alethea Felton: right quadrant. Now, contrary to popular belief, the liver itself cannot feel pain.
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Alethea Felton: However, if there's something going on with the liver or something's attacking
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Alethea Felton: it, then the pain from those conditions can affect where the liver is located.
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Alethea Felton: So in the early morning hours of the day of the biopsy, I felt the most excruciating
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Alethea Felton: pain in that upper right quadrant area.
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Alethea Felton: And I begged God. I begged God to take away the pain.
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Alethea Felton: It lasted for probably a good half hour. And then all of a sudden the pain subsided
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Alethea Felton: and I was able to sleep. So I said, I can actually sleep.
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Alethea Felton: I only had a few hours prior to my getting up.
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Alethea Felton: So I wake up the next morning, I get prepped to go to the hospital and they
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Alethea Felton: go in, they do the liver biopsy, it's outpatient.
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Alethea Felton: So I come home that same evening. I don't hear anything from my doctor.
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Alethea Felton: But then the next day, I remember it had been some time.
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Alethea Felton: So I was able to shower and whatnot.
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Alethea Felton: And I had to be very careful because of the bandage over the spot of the liver.
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Alethea Felton: And it was very, very tender and painful. And Kevin, this was about seven o'clock
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Alethea Felton: in the evening on a Wednesday.
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Alethea Felton: And I remember coming out of the bathroom and looking down at my cell phone.
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Alethea Felton: And I saw that it was my doctor's office calling. Now, this was the evening,
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Alethea Felton: evening hours. I said, this is strange.
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Alethea Felton: So I answer the phone and it's my doctor on the phone.
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Alethea Felton: And she asked me how I'm feeling. I said, I'm feeling okay, you know, blah, blah, blah.
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Alethea Felton: And then she says, well, I'm calling because the hospital has been on the phone
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Alethea Felton: with me all day asking if I sent them the right patient. And I said,
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Alethea Felton: what are you talking about the right patient?
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Alethea Felton: All of my prior scans that I took, even leading up to about 48 hours before
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Alethea Felton: the actual biopsy, showed that I had end stage liver failure,
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Alethea Felton: total cirrhosis of the liver.
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Alethea Felton: Kevin, by the time I went in for my biopsy, from what the liver biopsy showed
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Alethea Felton: is that I had reverted to stage one instead of stage one.
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Kevin Lowe: Amen. Amen.
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Alethea Felton: Yeah. And it stumped everybody.
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Alethea Felton: And to this day, now this is the truth. A few years ago,
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Alethea Felton: because I have a different team now, that doctor is still in practice,
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Alethea Felton: but she loved me enough where my case started getting very complex with the
00:23:26.863 --> 00:23:32.283
Alethea Felton: Crohn's and liver issues that she ended up transferring my case to a major hospital
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Alethea Felton: in the Washington, D.C. area, Georgetown. town.
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Alethea Felton: And so I have my doctors now out of there.
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Alethea Felton: And just a few years ago, when they were going through all of my files,
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Alethea Felton: things like that, they can't find evidence of the fact that now in this day and age,
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Alethea Felton: they can't find autoimmune hepatitis type one.
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Alethea Felton: I do have the bile duct thing, but they can't find the autoimmune hep.
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Alethea Felton: And I used to have it. And the reason why I bring this up, Kevin,
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Alethea Felton: it is because it's not curable.
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Kevin Lowe: Wow.
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Alethea Felton: It's not curable. And so they are really baffled. Like, how did you have it?
00:24:12.923 --> 00:24:16.463
Alethea Felton: And this prior doctor is like, like excellent.
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Alethea Felton: And I saw the evidence of me having it. I saw the past scans.
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Alethea Felton: And so, you know, I know it's a longer story, but I wanted to give you the context
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Alethea Felton: of that's what happened.
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Alethea Felton: And I, and I had other Other hospitalizations post that, but it was due to the
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Alethea Felton: Crohn's and those I was critical and things like that.
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Alethea Felton: And I've bounced back by the grace of God.
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Kevin Lowe: That doctor, she was right. God wasn't done with you yet.
00:24:46.943 --> 00:24:51.503
Kevin Lowe: And yeah, it is incredible. It is absolutely incredible.
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Kevin Lowe: Talk to me about your two friends that we're going to hear their stories.
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Kevin Lowe: And I feel this is such a powerful part and I know it's a tough part,
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Kevin Lowe: but I would love to hear about these friends of yours.
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Alethea Felton: I definitely am honored to tell you about my friends. I had two very close friends who passed away.
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Alethea Felton: And I have to explain why they're so pivotal and so important to my life.
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Alethea Felton: Let me start with their names. Their names were Shadary and Nakisha.
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Alethea Felton: I have been longtime friends with both ladies and met both of them through my church, actually.
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Alethea Felton: We sang on the praise team together at some point, but ironically,
00:25:42.829 --> 00:25:49.349
Alethea Felton: Shadary and Nikesha weren't friends with each other because they sang at different
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Alethea Felton: times on the praise team.
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Alethea Felton: Shadary was, I can't remember the exact age gap now, but I think she may have
00:25:56.289 --> 00:25:58.669
Alethea Felton: been four or five years younger than I.
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Alethea Felton: Nikesha was three years older than I was. But Shadary was diagnosed with stage
00:26:06.049 --> 00:26:08.529
Alethea Felton: four colon cancer in 2015.
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Alethea Felton: She ended up transitioning or passing away from it June of 2017.
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Alethea Felton: The reason why her death was so important to me, and yes, she had an incredible life.
00:26:22.569 --> 00:26:27.009
Alethea Felton: But Kevin, the reason I focus on her death is the last three months of her life,
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Alethea Felton: I was able to spend one-on-one quality time with her because ironically,
00:26:32.989 --> 00:26:38.909
Alethea Felton: I had been on short-term disability from work for a couple of months due to a Crohn's flare.
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Alethea Felton: Shadary was unable to work at the time and her husband was at work and he allowed
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Alethea Felton: me to come over and sit with her and things of that nature.
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Alethea Felton: But the reason she was so special to me was because she told me at the time, And my nickname is Lili.
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Alethea Felton: And she told me, she said, Lili, you do so much for everybody else.
00:27:02.509 --> 00:27:07.429
Alethea Felton: She said, but I want you to start taking care of you and doing things for you.
00:27:08.261 --> 00:27:15.801
Alethea Felton: In other words, Kevin, she saw areas of weakness or flaws in me.
00:27:17.001 --> 00:27:20.141
Alethea Felton: And I'm careful using the word flaw.
00:27:20.301 --> 00:27:21.761
Alethea Felton: I guess what I'm trying to say
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Alethea Felton: is she knew back then that I didn't see and accept my entire full worth.
00:27:28.661 --> 00:27:34.761
Alethea Felton: She saw it in me. And she made me promise that I would work on me.
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Alethea Felton: It's not like I was a terrible person or anything, and I wasn't necessarily
00:27:38.561 --> 00:27:46.741
Alethea Felton: a people pleaser, but I accepted certain things in my life that were not serving me, that did me no good,
00:27:46.861 --> 00:27:55.221
Alethea Felton: that I allowed myself to be put on strings by certain men who were in my life at the time.
00:27:55.221 --> 00:28:00.921
Alethea Felton: I wasn't, you know, sleeping around or anything like that, but just accepting
00:28:00.921 --> 00:28:04.641
Alethea Felton: crumbs as opposed to accepting the full meals.
00:28:04.881 --> 00:28:08.081
Alethea Felton: And then I was overextending myself for people.
00:28:08.581 --> 00:28:13.801
Alethea Felton: I was kind of all over the place, although I was constantly achieving things
00:28:13.801 --> 00:28:18.641
Alethea Felton: and outwardly appearing like this strong, confident, courageous woman.
00:28:18.741 --> 00:28:25.641
Alethea Felton: I had so many insecurities from the, you know, sicknesses. I didn't really embrace who I was.
00:28:26.361 --> 00:28:32.581
Alethea Felton: And Shadary died in front of me. I was there when she took her last breath.
00:28:32.721 --> 00:28:37.361
Alethea Felton: And she waited until I got to her house to transition.
00:28:38.141 --> 00:28:41.801
Alethea Felton: And I thought that was the best gift she could have ever given me.
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Alethea Felton: Because after she died, very shortly afterwards, I was hospitalized again within
00:28:47.561 --> 00:28:53.001
Alethea Felton: a week for a very severe Crohn's flare after her funeral. I helped to plan her funeral.
00:28:53.601 --> 00:28:56.981
Alethea Felton: And the stress of it sent me right back into the hospital.
00:28:57.061 --> 00:29:03.001
Alethea Felton: And that's when my doctor at the time transferred me over to Georgetown because it was so serious.
00:29:03.481 --> 00:29:09.461
Alethea Felton: And that time I was in the hospital, Kevin, it was very, very serious. It was touch and go.
00:29:09.741 --> 00:29:16.141
Alethea Felton: And I had such a spiritual reawakening in that hospital bed.
00:29:17.182 --> 00:29:26.062
Alethea Felton: Where I had visitors in and out, where the worship team came and sang to me in the quiet times.
00:29:26.202 --> 00:29:31.602
Alethea Felton: I really felt the presence of God moving, but I was in that hospital bed and
00:29:31.602 --> 00:29:35.462
Alethea Felton: I said, no, my life isn't over. It's only beginning.
00:29:36.082 --> 00:29:41.142
Alethea Felton: And Shadari's death led me to not only getting grief counseling,
00:29:41.682 --> 00:29:45.942
Alethea Felton: but I got personal counseling that I needed for myself.
00:29:46.262 --> 00:29:51.902
Alethea Felton: And I always attribute her passing to being the person I am today.
00:29:52.582 --> 00:30:00.062
Alethea Felton: Nakisha was like another sister and she ended up getting pancreatic cancer in June of 2019.
00:30:00.442 --> 00:30:03.462
Alethea Felton: And she was dead in October of 2019.
00:30:03.922 --> 00:30:07.902
Alethea Felton: My parents considered Keisha, their third daughter.
00:30:08.422 --> 00:30:12.402
Alethea Felton: She was such a, you call me a ray of sunshine.
00:30:12.682 --> 00:30:17.322
Alethea Felton: Keisha, oh, you would have loved her, Kevin. She was the most bubbly,
00:30:17.342 --> 00:30:21.782
Alethea Felton: full of life, energetic, joy-filled people.
00:30:22.062 --> 00:30:27.962
Alethea Felton: And I saw Keisha, me and my sister growing old together as sisters.
00:30:27.962 --> 00:30:32.322
Alethea Felton: Characters and her death knocked the total wind out of me.
00:30:32.622 --> 00:30:38.782
Alethea Felton: But the gift was I got to spend it with her also in her last moments and hours.
00:30:39.102 --> 00:30:42.462
Alethea Felton: But her death really took a toll on me.
00:30:42.762 --> 00:30:48.822
Alethea Felton: And I remember telling her right before she died, maybe a couple of weeks prior
00:30:48.822 --> 00:30:55.522
Alethea Felton: to it, I said, how am I going to live my life without you? And I meant it. I said, how?
00:30:55.762 --> 00:31:01.242
Alethea Felton: Because we had all these She's plans as, you know, sisters to do things together and go places.
00:31:01.422 --> 00:31:04.842
Alethea Felton: And she was very stern with me
00:31:04.842 --> 00:31:09.382
Alethea Felton: and said, Lili, you got to keep living your life. You better not give up.
00:31:09.622 --> 00:31:15.182
Alethea Felton: And it was almost an admonishment that you better keep going.
00:31:16.111 --> 00:31:22.351
Alethea Felton: And the reason I go into debt with these and why this is so profound, I have other friends.
00:31:23.111 --> 00:31:30.231
Alethea Felton: They know that I love them. But Kevin, I'm telling you, when two of your best
00:31:30.231 --> 00:31:32.771
Alethea Felton: friends and actually currently my third,
00:31:32.931 --> 00:31:37.851
Alethea Felton: like very, very best friend, she's actually going through stage four liver cancer
00:31:37.851 --> 00:31:43.731
Alethea Felton: right now and she's still living and hopefully she'll be healed.
00:31:43.731 --> 00:31:46.751
Alethea Felton: But it's becomes a
00:31:46.751 --> 00:31:50.271
Alethea Felton: different world when the closest
00:31:50.271 --> 00:31:53.311
Alethea Felton: people in your inner circle are no longer here
00:31:53.311 --> 00:32:00.671
Alethea Felton: and I really was grateful for the friends who were still around and knew their
00:32:00.671 --> 00:32:07.671
Alethea Felton: place knew I still loved them but understood the difference Shadari and Nakisha
00:32:07.671 --> 00:32:12.571
Alethea Felton: made in my life and I'm glad I'm glad I can talk about it now and not feel so hurt,
00:32:12.711 --> 00:32:15.411
Alethea Felton: but it is still to this day in 2024,
00:32:15.831 --> 00:32:20.011
Alethea Felton: a very different world navigating life without them.
00:32:20.231 --> 00:32:23.911
Kevin Lowe: Yeah, I mean, I can only imagine that.
00:32:24.511 --> 00:32:30.871
Kevin Lowe: I mean, I just have to acknowledge the fact of how brutal life can be sometimes.
00:32:31.351 --> 00:32:38.671
Kevin Lowe: The fact of your two best friends to lose them within just a couple of years of one another.
00:32:39.771 --> 00:32:46.891
Alethea Felton: And Kevin, if I can say this too, the irony was that they were the ones by my sickbed.
00:32:48.331 --> 00:32:52.931
Alethea Felton: They were the ones by my sickbed. They were the ones looking after me.
00:32:52.991 --> 00:32:55.311
Alethea Felton: And so when the script was flipped.
00:32:56.117 --> 00:33:01.677
Alethea Felton: That really was a mind blowing thing.
00:33:01.817 --> 00:33:06.477
Kevin Lowe: And actually, that actually brings me to one point that I wanted to bring up.
00:33:06.577 --> 00:33:12.777
Kevin Lowe: And you're going to have to fill in the gaps for me is one of your friends actually,
00:33:12.997 --> 00:33:19.677
Kevin Lowe: while she was sick herself, was came to the hospital to celebrate your birthday.
00:33:20.457 --> 00:33:23.897
Alethea Felton: Yes. Oh, my gosh. Thank you for bringing that up.
00:33:24.037 --> 00:33:29.277
Alethea Felton: Thank you, Kevin. Yes. So, oh my gosh, that's something. Okay.
00:33:29.417 --> 00:33:32.077
Alethea Felton: Because of the stress of everything, blah, blah, blah.
00:33:32.597 --> 00:33:36.157
Alethea Felton: August of 2019, I had another Crohn's flare.
00:33:36.597 --> 00:33:43.077
Alethea Felton: And I think, and what my doctors think was that the stress of what Nakisha was
00:33:43.077 --> 00:33:48.977
Alethea Felton: experiencing really manifested in my body. And so in August of 2019,
00:33:49.257 --> 00:33:50.957
Alethea Felton: I had another serious Crohn's flare.
00:33:51.057 --> 00:33:55.937
Alethea Felton: And that was my last hospitalizations until this day.
00:33:55.997 --> 00:33:59.777
Alethea Felton: And prayerfully, I won't have any more hospitalizations until God lets me have
00:33:59.777 --> 00:34:02.217
Alethea Felton: a baby or something like that.
00:34:02.357 --> 00:34:07.117
Alethea Felton: But that was my last hospitalization. That was in 2019, August.
00:34:07.117 --> 00:34:11.597
Alethea Felton: August and I had to spend my birthday in the hospital.
00:34:11.697 --> 00:34:15.497
Alethea Felton: That was my 38th birthday in the hospital.
00:34:15.677 --> 00:34:25.057
Alethea Felton: And my sister, Dina, my blood sister, she took it upon herself to throw a party
00:34:25.057 --> 00:34:26.917
Alethea Felton: for me in my hospital room.
00:34:27.217 --> 00:34:30.337
Alethea Felton: And so certain loved ones came in and all this stuff.
00:34:30.417 --> 00:34:36.317
Alethea Felton: And keep in mind, y'all. This was pre-pandemic, so people could just come in and out, right?
00:34:36.557 --> 00:34:41.277
Alethea Felton: And Georgetown has a 24-hour visitor's policy.
00:34:41.637 --> 00:34:46.877
Alethea Felton: And so I was having guests come a lot. So anyway, as we're partying.
00:34:47.697 --> 00:34:53.897
Alethea Felton: Next thing you know, I see Keisha walking into the hospital room with her walker
00:34:53.897 --> 00:34:57.637
Alethea Felton: and her son and her husband are behind her.
00:34:57.857 --> 00:35:04.317
Alethea Felton: And the reason why this was shocking is because Nakesha had stopped all of her treatments.
00:35:04.757 --> 00:35:08.457
Alethea Felton: They knew there was nothing more they could do for her. She was supposed to
00:35:08.457 --> 00:35:10.317
Alethea Felton: only go to her doctor's appointments.
00:35:10.397 --> 00:35:13.037
Alethea Felton: The last place she needed to be was in a hospital.
00:35:13.457 --> 00:35:17.497
Alethea Felton: And she comes through that door and I'm just like, okay.
00:35:18.506 --> 00:35:23.526
Alethea Felton: Now I talk to her anyway, every day, but to actually physically see her.
00:35:23.666 --> 00:35:29.386
Alethea Felton: And that was maybe the last time I saw her like very, very vibrant and peppy.
00:35:29.486 --> 00:35:35.466
Alethea Felton: And I have video as well as a picture of her like dancing, us hugging.
00:35:36.466 --> 00:35:40.846
Alethea Felton: And that was one of the best moments is that I'm in my sick bed.
00:35:41.146 --> 00:35:49.246
Alethea Felton: And here Keisha had stage four pancreatic cancer spread throughout her body. And she's in such pain.
00:35:49.486 --> 00:35:55.266
Alethea Felton: And yet she came and celebrated with me, knowing that her body was shutting
00:35:55.266 --> 00:35:57.386
Alethea Felton: down. And she passed in October.
00:35:57.606 --> 00:36:00.726
Alethea Felton: And this was August 27th, 2019.
00:36:01.126 --> 00:36:03.826
Alethea Felton: And she passed in October.
00:36:04.206 --> 00:36:08.286
Kevin Lowe: What a beautiful representation of friendship. Yeah.
00:36:08.726 --> 00:36:12.866
Alethea Felton: Yeah. She was the best. Her and Derry were the best.
00:36:13.066 --> 00:36:19.846
Alethea Felton: They always had a joke. They always made you smile. They were just the absolute best.
00:36:20.066 --> 00:36:26.806
Alethea Felton: And Derry's mom, the one who died in 2017, I kept in touch with her every week
00:36:26.806 --> 00:36:29.126
Alethea Felton: after she, Derry passed.
00:36:29.446 --> 00:36:36.186
Alethea Felton: And unfortunately, her mother passed due to complications from the pandemic. Damn it.
00:36:36.546 --> 00:36:44.966
Kevin Lowe: Wow. Wow. How how was it for you moving on with life after the loss of both of them?
00:36:45.806 --> 00:36:49.566
Alethea Felton: Therapy helped. Therapy helped, no doubt.
00:36:49.706 --> 00:36:56.226
Alethea Felton: That helped a lot. And I opted for a therapist who who also specialized in Christian
00:36:56.226 --> 00:37:02.046
Alethea Felton: counseling because she was able to use scripture to help me through it.
00:37:02.690 --> 00:37:08.670
Alethea Felton: And the grief program that I went through, Grief Share, is hands down,
00:37:08.830 --> 00:37:11.170
Alethea Felton: I would recommend that to anybody.
00:37:11.250 --> 00:37:13.830
Alethea Felton: It's a national program. Amazing.
00:37:14.950 --> 00:37:19.150
Alethea Felton: But how did I get through life? I guess the simplest answer,
00:37:19.390 --> 00:37:21.450
Alethea Felton: Kevin, would be one day at a time.
00:37:21.670 --> 00:37:29.670
Alethea Felton: And I think my other people in my support system were really carrying me through.
00:37:29.670 --> 00:37:37.630
Alethea Felton: I had a full circle moment in August of 2021 when I turned 40 and the world
00:37:37.630 --> 00:37:39.050
Alethea Felton: was just opening back up.
00:37:39.190 --> 00:37:44.850
Alethea Felton: And my sister planned a surprise birthday party for me at a winery.
00:37:44.890 --> 00:37:50.850
Alethea Felton: And I don't drink, but it was such a like a beautiful scenic place. It was outside.
00:37:51.670 --> 00:37:56.730
Alethea Felton: And the way that my sister organized this, I have no idea, Kevin,
00:37:56.810 --> 00:37:58.970
Alethea Felton: how she knew the right people to invite.
00:37:59.670 --> 00:38:05.190
Alethea Felton: But I think that the beauty of that was, you have to think, this was August of 2021.
00:38:06.490 --> 00:38:11.750
Alethea Felton: We were going through, as a country, a pandemic, getting out of the brunt of it.
00:38:12.470 --> 00:38:20.550
Alethea Felton: But there were about 10 of my closest sister friends who came to that party.
00:38:21.390 --> 00:38:24.510
Alethea Felton: And I knew them at different stages of my life.
00:38:24.610 --> 00:38:28.510
Alethea Felton: And they were the kind of ladies where I didn't have to talk to them every day,
00:38:28.510 --> 00:38:31.710
Alethea Felton: but they were just perfect in my world and still are.
00:38:32.130 --> 00:38:35.870
Alethea Felton: But I think that the beauty of that, I think that's where, oh,
00:38:36.050 --> 00:38:39.490
Alethea Felton: and I don't want to get emotional, but I feel some tears welling up.
00:38:40.830 --> 00:38:45.990
Alethea Felton: That surprise party made me realize how well I navigated through it because
00:38:45.990 --> 00:38:52.850
Alethea Felton: here were other women in my life, Kevin, who knew the extreme losses that I had.
00:38:53.940 --> 00:38:58.780
Alethea Felton: Yet they were secure enough in themselves and knowing that they didn't feel
00:38:58.780 --> 00:39:05.400
Alethea Felton: slighted by me, that they still knew I loved them, but they knew the importance
00:39:05.400 --> 00:39:07.960
Alethea Felton: Shadary and Keisha played in my life.
00:39:08.740 --> 00:39:13.900
Alethea Felton: And even at my party, somebody said in a tribute, because they all came around
00:39:13.900 --> 00:39:20.620
Alethea Felton: and did tributes to me, one of my friends said, we know that you would have
00:39:20.620 --> 00:39:23.480
Alethea Felton: loved to have Derry and Keisha here with you.
00:39:23.940 --> 00:39:27.420
Alethea Felton: But to know that we have your back too. And like.
00:39:28.440 --> 00:39:35.260
Alethea Felton: Oh my God, that was a game changer for me to know that these women thought so
00:39:35.260 --> 00:39:40.420
Alethea Felton: much of me to love me enough to say, we're still here to help carry you.
00:39:40.700 --> 00:39:46.980
Alethea Felton: Auto is hard. And it's been tough. Like I'm not going to act like I don't think about them often.
00:39:47.120 --> 00:39:51.820
Alethea Felton: I don't necessarily think about them every single day, but every week they still
00:39:51.820 --> 00:39:53.840
Alethea Felton: cross my mind. I miss them.
00:39:54.020 --> 00:39:59.040
Alethea Felton: I mean, it's no getting around it. And they are forever young in my mind.
00:39:59.180 --> 00:40:03.820
Alethea Felton: Derry was 32 when she passed. Keisha was 40.
00:40:04.220 --> 00:40:09.040
Alethea Felton: And they kind of stay stuck in time as you grow older.
00:40:09.300 --> 00:40:14.900
Alethea Felton: And I dealt with survivor's guilt for a while because I was the one expected
00:40:14.900 --> 00:40:17.160
Alethea Felton: to die, expected not to live.
00:40:17.840 --> 00:40:20.620
Alethea Felton: And that could play its game on me.
00:40:20.760 --> 00:40:25.700
Alethea Felton: So I've just learned to just utilize what I've learned in therapy,
00:40:26.660 --> 00:40:31.160
Alethea Felton: ask God to guide me through it and to be surrounded and supported by love.
00:40:31.420 --> 00:40:33.180
Alethea Felton: And that's what's really helped me.
00:40:33.620 --> 00:40:42.920
Kevin Lowe: Wow. So emotional. But again, just such a powerful story of love,
00:40:43.240 --> 00:40:45.100
Kevin Lowe: of relationships, of friendship.
00:40:45.580 --> 00:40:47.840
Kevin Lowe: So amazingly beautiful.
00:40:48.860 --> 00:40:54.900
Kevin Lowe: So maybe kind of shifting gears a little bit, Where in the world does podcasting
00:40:54.900 --> 00:40:56.720
Kevin Lowe: enter this whole story of yours?
00:40:59.760 --> 00:41:06.180
Alethea Felton: Oh, my goodness. Let me tell you about this. So podcasting is kind of a funny story.
00:41:07.000 --> 00:41:13.260
Alethea Felton: I launched the Power Transformation podcast back in December of 2022.
00:41:13.680 --> 00:41:19.860
Alethea Felton: So this was when I was still working a full time nine to five and everything like that.
00:41:19.860 --> 00:41:26.240
Alethea Felton: I had a 20-year career as a public school educator, and I had roles from classroom
00:41:26.240 --> 00:41:29.000
Alethea Felton: teaching to leadership roles in schools,
00:41:29.080 --> 00:41:37.100
Alethea Felton: and I retired early last July at the age of 41 and ended my career in HR.
00:41:37.540 --> 00:41:42.640
Alethea Felton: But when I started my podcast, it was in December of 2022. Okay.
00:41:43.128 --> 00:41:47.948
Alethea Felton: I was still teaching, but one of my mentors and a dear friend of mine for many
00:41:47.948 --> 00:41:50.168
Alethea Felton: years, his name is John Narrow.
00:41:50.688 --> 00:41:56.708
Alethea Felton: John told me in early 2022, Kevin, now get this, early 2022,
00:41:57.048 --> 00:42:00.248
Alethea Felton: John says, I think you should start a podcast.
00:42:00.388 --> 00:42:04.348
Alethea Felton: Kevin, I ain't even listened to a podcast. So how in the world am I supposed to start one?
00:42:04.708 --> 00:42:11.408
Alethea Felton: I was like, I don't even listen. And the hilarious part is that John has a very
00:42:11.408 --> 00:42:18.628
Alethea Felton: successful podcast about workplace, careers, jobs, et cetera.
00:42:18.928 --> 00:42:23.708
Alethea Felton: So as much as I love John, I didn't even listen to his podcast.
00:42:23.768 --> 00:42:27.128
Alethea Felton: So how in the world am I going to listen to my own?
00:42:27.128 --> 00:42:33.008
Alethea Felton: So John said, well, the reason I think that you should is he noticed that my
00:42:33.008 --> 00:42:37.768
Alethea Felton: social media posts had some really good content topics, things like that.
00:42:37.808 --> 00:42:39.708
Alethea Felton: And he said, I just think you should start a podcast.
00:42:40.368 --> 00:42:42.008
Alethea Felton: So I said, I don't know.
00:42:42.808 --> 00:42:48.248
Alethea Felton: Look, Kevin, don't judge me, but I sat on that idea for probably almost a year.
00:42:48.368 --> 00:42:51.028
Alethea Felton: I just sat on it like I ain't gonna do no podcast. Right.
00:42:53.628 --> 00:42:57.008
Alethea Felton: And so I was like, no, I ain't going to do a podcast.
00:42:57.308 --> 00:43:03.448
Alethea Felton: So John said, start listening to maybe five that resonated with you.
00:43:03.468 --> 00:43:04.948
Alethea Felton: I said, John, I don't even know where to begin.
00:43:05.228 --> 00:43:10.788
Alethea Felton: Like, so John is the best. He was like, well, first you can subscribe to my
00:43:10.788 --> 00:43:13.128
Alethea Felton: podcast. So I was like, what?
00:43:17.004 --> 00:43:20.264
Alethea Felton: So I did that. I was like, okay, okay. So I did that.
00:43:20.504 --> 00:43:25.064
Alethea Felton: Then I started to see, gosh, this world of podcasting is pretty huge.
00:43:25.524 --> 00:43:30.184
Alethea Felton: Let me find topics I like. So I went into the deep end where I was subscribing
00:43:30.184 --> 00:43:31.924
Alethea Felton: left and right, this one and that one.
00:43:31.944 --> 00:43:34.644
Alethea Felton: I said, wait a minute, I'm not gonna have time to do anything else.
00:43:34.864 --> 00:43:39.564
Alethea Felton: So I scaled back and then I started to really pray about it.
00:43:39.644 --> 00:43:44.424
Alethea Felton: And I said, God, show me the way to go with this podcast idea.
00:43:44.544 --> 00:43:46.724
Alethea Felton: Give me creativity, insight, and ideas.
00:43:47.464 --> 00:43:53.564
Alethea Felton: So John actually coached me through how to launch a podcast, how to create one.
00:43:53.944 --> 00:43:58.604
Alethea Felton: And I'm the type of a person, if you give me good, solid, grounded,
00:43:58.684 --> 00:44:04.344
Alethea Felton: wise counsel, I will implement it if I see that it's going to be a best,
00:44:04.484 --> 00:44:06.744
Alethea Felton: not just to me, but to the people that I serve.
00:44:06.964 --> 00:44:14.284
Alethea Felton: I was already a certified holistic health coach and really focusing on that
00:44:14.284 --> 00:44:17.244
Alethea Felton: at the time, as well as with my career.
00:44:17.784 --> 00:44:23.444
Alethea Felton: I had already had many other experiences in my life. So I was like, okay.
00:44:23.564 --> 00:44:30.104
Alethea Felton: And the key with the name is that John said, try to find a name nobody has.
00:44:30.544 --> 00:44:35.524
Alethea Felton: So at the time when I created this podcast, nobody had this name.
00:44:35.604 --> 00:44:42.904
Alethea Felton: I think someone since then has has created one similar, but I have the original name of it.
00:44:43.024 --> 00:44:48.024
Alethea Felton: So anyway, so I found the name of the podcast wasn't taken.
00:44:48.384 --> 00:44:54.464
Alethea Felton: And I said, okay, I want this show to be about things, maybe holistic health
00:44:54.464 --> 00:45:01.024
Alethea Felton: principles people can implement into their lives based on the power they have within themselves.
00:45:01.164 --> 00:45:05.984
Alethea Felton: So for example, maybe they want to be more mindful in their daily life.
00:45:06.064 --> 00:45:07.244
Alethea Felton: Maybe they want this and that.
00:45:07.464 --> 00:45:13.764
Alethea Felton: So I started it off as that. I started with five episodes, launched December 7th, 2022.
00:45:14.264 --> 00:45:19.004
Alethea Felton: That date was important because that was the date of my late godmother's birthday.
00:45:19.264 --> 00:45:23.604
Alethea Felton: And she had died not long prior to me launching. She passed,
00:45:23.804 --> 00:45:26.564
Alethea Felton: sadly, of complications due to the pandemic.
00:45:27.264 --> 00:45:31.224
Alethea Felton: And so I was very close to my godmother.
00:45:31.404 --> 00:45:35.864
Alethea Felton: She was an incredible woman. And if she were living, Kevin, she would have been
00:45:35.864 --> 00:45:38.344
Alethea Felton: a perfect guest to have on your show.
00:45:38.524 --> 00:45:40.044
Alethea Felton: She was the epitome of that.
00:45:40.264 --> 00:45:45.244
Alethea Felton: And so in honor to her, with her grit and her grace, inspiration,
00:45:45.624 --> 00:45:51.764
Alethea Felton: I decided to say, I'm going to launch the Power Transformation Podcast on Sandra's birthday.
00:45:52.284 --> 00:45:56.244
Alethea Felton: So I launched it, and then John taught me the art of being consistent.
00:45:56.824 --> 00:46:02.884
Alethea Felton: However, what it's formed into now, Now, Kevin, is what I noticed were,
00:46:03.104 --> 00:46:08.724
Alethea Felton: yes, I would do some solo episodes, but I noticed that with the guests I started interviewing.
00:46:09.748 --> 00:46:14.188
Alethea Felton: Every single guest, Kevin, had a story where they had a challenge,
00:46:14.428 --> 00:46:21.148
Alethea Felton: some type of adversity or an obstacle that they overcame or could even currently still go through.
00:46:21.188 --> 00:46:25.988
Alethea Felton: Yet they haven't used that as a place to wallow or feel sorry for themselves,
00:46:26.108 --> 00:46:27.848
Alethea Felton: but they've used that as a catalyst
00:46:27.848 --> 00:46:32.828
Alethea Felton: for change to make their lives and the lives around others better.
00:46:32.828 --> 00:46:38.248
Alethea Felton: And so that then became the essence of the Power Transformation podcast,
00:46:38.448 --> 00:46:40.928
Alethea Felton: where it started as this one idea,
00:46:41.108 --> 00:46:46.928
Alethea Felton: but now it's crafted into this entirely different idea that fits its name.
00:46:47.028 --> 00:46:52.108
Alethea Felton: And it ranks currently in the top 5% of podcasts globally.
00:46:52.248 --> 00:46:57.288
Alethea Felton: It's audio only for right now, but in September, I'm actually going to start
00:46:57.288 --> 00:47:00.908
Alethea Felton: putting episodes on YouTube as well.
00:47:00.908 --> 00:47:04.568
Kevin Lowe: Well, fantastic. No, I mean, that's amazing.
00:47:05.008 --> 00:47:08.948
Kevin Lowe: And I mean, I love the story of how you started the podcast.
00:47:09.468 --> 00:47:12.868
Kevin Lowe: The fact of not even knowing what the heck a podcast was.
00:47:13.708 --> 00:47:22.148
Kevin Lowe: And now you, Miss Power Transformation Podcast Superstar, you're amazing.
00:47:22.148 --> 00:47:29.808
Alethea Felton: Oh, thank you. And on LinkedIn, I got one of those, um, those.
00:47:30.750 --> 00:47:34.310
Alethea Felton: Badges for top podcasting voice badge.
00:47:34.530 --> 00:47:38.770
Alethea Felton: So I'm pretty excited about that, you know, the measly thing,
00:47:38.930 --> 00:47:43.850
Alethea Felton: but I have a lot of this, like, I literally have a wait list right now for guests
00:47:43.850 --> 00:47:46.310
Alethea Felton: because I'm still doing this on my own.
00:47:46.390 --> 00:47:51.190
Alethea Felton: After a while, I may hire other people after a while, but you know,
00:47:51.190 --> 00:47:54.090
Alethea Felton: I'm still doing all of the editing on my own.
00:47:54.190 --> 00:47:58.250
Alethea Felton: But when I say, and I think you and I I kind of talked about this.
00:47:58.310 --> 00:48:01.950
Alethea Felton: I have approximately, this is no, no exaggeration.
00:48:01.970 --> 00:48:08.830
Alethea Felton: I have approximately 200 people who have requests to want to be on my show as guests.
00:48:09.090 --> 00:48:13.430
Alethea Felton: And I'm not exaggerating about that. So I'm sifting through that.
00:48:13.610 --> 00:48:20.070
Alethea Felton: So that is really, really a blessing that, wow, so that people are learning
00:48:20.070 --> 00:48:25.190
Alethea Felton: more about what I'm doing and getting it out there because I'm so courageous
00:48:25.390 --> 00:48:30.590
Alethea Felton: and bold and believe in dreams where I say I'm going to be a top 1% podcaster
00:48:30.590 --> 00:48:33.370
Alethea Felton: one of these days. I don't care how long it takes.
00:48:33.570 --> 00:48:37.050
Kevin Lowe: But I will be. Absolutely. Absolutely. I love it so much.
00:48:37.410 --> 00:48:43.630
Kevin Lowe: Now, talking a little bit about your podcast and it leading into something that
00:48:43.630 --> 00:48:46.750
Kevin Lowe: you also have done of some public speaking.
00:48:47.310 --> 00:48:52.950
Kevin Lowe: I want you to tell me the story about one of your doctors while you were,
00:48:53.010 --> 00:49:00.530
Kevin Lowe: I think, prepping for surgery who actually helped you with your podcast and it's Oh yeah,
00:49:00.710 --> 00:49:07.370
Alethea Felton: I can't tell you that. Thank you. Yeah, so okay, so this is the greatest story
00:49:07.370 --> 00:49:13.950
Alethea Felton: ever and I'm going to give him a public shout out because he's been so amazing. Dr. Mark Mattar.
00:49:14.862 --> 00:49:22.302
Alethea Felton: At Georgetown University Hospital. He is the head of the gastroenterology fellows at Georgetown.
00:49:23.142 --> 00:49:28.682
Alethea Felton: Hands down, just an incredible doctor, but more so one of the most compassionate
00:49:28.682 --> 00:49:30.722
Alethea Felton: human beings that you will ever meet.
00:49:30.862 --> 00:49:35.002
Alethea Felton: He has an awesome wife. Also, I met her recently.
00:49:35.282 --> 00:49:41.542
Alethea Felton: But what happened was, it was last year at my annual colonoscopy.
00:49:41.742 --> 00:49:49.122
Alethea Felton: Now, keep in mind, ever since I was 28 years old, I've had to get annual colonoscopies.
00:49:49.382 --> 00:49:51.262
Alethea Felton: No fun at all.
00:49:51.602 --> 00:49:58.562
Alethea Felton: Yuck. Hate that time of my life. But I've had to get them every year because I live with Crohn's.
00:49:58.902 --> 00:50:07.202
Alethea Felton: So what happened was I was literally prepping for my annual and went in the back and, um,
00:50:07.342 --> 00:50:13.222
Alethea Felton: I was all prepped up and it's a room that has the anesthesiologist,
00:50:13.322 --> 00:50:14.602
Alethea Felton: the anesthesiology assistant,
00:50:14.922 --> 00:50:16.702
Alethea Felton: nurses, doctors, et cetera.
00:50:17.102 --> 00:50:23.042
Alethea Felton: So Dr. Mattar comes in prior to him getting into scrubs just to say hi.
00:50:23.262 --> 00:50:30.362
Alethea Felton: And he, And he remembered that I had been telling him since 2022 about my podcast.
00:50:30.882 --> 00:50:37.362
Alethea Felton: So prior to my procedure, he literally says, wait a minute, stop.
00:50:37.822 --> 00:50:42.382
Alethea Felton: Before we put you under, tell me the name again of your podcast.
00:50:42.902 --> 00:50:47.362
Alethea Felton: I say it's called The Power Transformation Podcast. It's on all platforms.
00:50:47.742 --> 00:50:53.542
Alethea Felton: So he takes out his phone, tells everybody in the room, take out your cell phone.
00:50:53.882 --> 00:50:57.822
Alethea Felton: If you're an Apple user, go to Apple. If you're Android, go to,
00:50:57.842 --> 00:51:00.342
Alethea Felton: you know, Spotify, iHeart, anywhere.
00:51:00.662 --> 00:51:06.522
Alethea Felton: And he subscribes to my podcast then and there and makes everybody else do the
00:51:06.522 --> 00:51:09.082
Alethea Felton: same prior to me going under for my procedure.
00:51:10.882 --> 00:51:12.682
Kevin Lowe: That is classic.
00:51:12.682 --> 00:51:16.742
Alethea Felton: So that was pretty fun. It was classic.
00:51:16.902 --> 00:51:25.542
Alethea Felton: It was classic. And on top of that, I also pay homage to him because he invited me in June.
00:51:25.582 --> 00:51:32.242
Alethea Felton: Well, in June, I had a major speaking engagement that really helped to catapult
00:51:32.242 --> 00:51:35.222
Alethea Felton: me to a desire I have been having for a while now.
00:51:35.819 --> 00:51:42.739
Alethea Felton: Is while I am a transformational coach, what I also have been yearning to do
00:51:42.739 --> 00:51:46.739
Alethea Felton: is getting to more of the public and professional speaking world.
00:51:47.039 --> 00:51:53.779
Alethea Felton: And several months ago, Dr. Mattar contacted me and said that for the gastroenterology
00:51:53.779 --> 00:51:59.899
Alethea Felton: fellows graduation, he asked me if I could be their key keynote speaker.
00:52:00.259 --> 00:52:07.759
Alethea Felton: So in early June of this year, I had the esteemed honor of speaking at the.
00:52:08.739 --> 00:52:14.879
Alethea Felton: Congressional Country Club in Maryland to speak with the gastroenterology fellows,
00:52:15.059 --> 00:52:18.559
Alethea Felton: as well as numerous other doctors at Georgetown.
00:52:18.739 --> 00:52:24.379
Alethea Felton: And it was a keynote speech about caring, about showing compassion,
00:52:24.819 --> 00:52:29.859
Alethea Felton: care, and never forgetting your why when it comes to you working in healthcare.
00:52:30.199 --> 00:52:35.819
Alethea Felton: And that was absolutely tremendous because my target audience of people that
00:52:35.819 --> 00:52:39.139
Alethea Felton: I coach, as well as who I'm targeting in terms of speech,
00:52:39.339 --> 00:52:46.499
Alethea Felton: it's really two groups is that I coach educators and I use that word to say teachers,
00:52:46.839 --> 00:52:52.519
Alethea Felton: principals, instructional specialists, anyone who works in that school setting
00:52:52.519 --> 00:52:55.179
Alethea Felton: directly with students, educators.
00:52:55.339 --> 00:53:00.679
Alethea Felton: I coach them and I also coach people living with invisible illness.
00:53:00.959 --> 00:53:05.999
Alethea Felton: And so those are my two aspects. And specifically the targets is how to help
00:53:05.999 --> 00:53:12.099
Alethea Felton: them get unstuck in order to reach that next personal or professional goal in
00:53:12.099 --> 00:53:14.899
Alethea Felton: their life. I know what it feels like to be...
00:53:16.150 --> 00:53:20.010
Alethea Felton: Underappreciated, overwhelmed, undervalued, burnt out, exhausted.
00:53:20.250 --> 00:53:26.490
Alethea Felton: And I know the strategies of how to be resilient despite the obstacles,
00:53:26.610 --> 00:53:31.750
Alethea Felton: either self-imposed or external obstacles that can tend to hinder you.
00:53:31.850 --> 00:53:36.990
Alethea Felton: I know through a system I've created, as well as what I've used in my own life
00:53:36.990 --> 00:53:41.010
Alethea Felton: on how to bounce back from them in order to still be highly successful.
00:53:41.010 --> 00:53:47.290
Kevin Lowe: Yeah, I love it. Well, Alethea, before I ask my final question today,
00:53:47.530 --> 00:53:52.750
Kevin Lowe: will you please share with us for anybody interested in your coaching,
00:53:52.950 --> 00:53:57.390
Kevin Lowe: in maybe hiring you as a speaker or just even finding the podcast,
00:53:57.510 --> 00:53:59.050
Kevin Lowe: where can we send everybody? everybody.
00:53:59.330 --> 00:54:05.570
Alethea Felton: Thank you. Yes. So my website is being updated as we speak, but it is still live.
00:54:05.770 --> 00:54:10.770
Alethea Felton: So my website is www.alethiafelton.com.
00:54:11.010 --> 00:54:15.550
Alethea Felton: That's A-L-E-T-H-E-A-F-E-L-T-O-N.
00:54:15.950 --> 00:54:21.410
Alethea Felton: People often try to default and say Althea and skip over that first E,
00:54:21.470 --> 00:54:24.210
Alethea Felton: but it's Aletheia. It's a Greek name, means truth.
00:54:24.650 --> 00:54:32.050
Alethea Felton: That's one way. Also, you can email me directly at coach at aletheafelton.com.
00:54:32.330 --> 00:54:36.730
Alethea Felton: That's coach, C-O-A-C-H at aletheafelton.com.
00:54:37.130 --> 00:54:41.790
Alethea Felton: I'm on LinkedIn. If you're on LinkedIn, that's a great place to connect with me.
00:54:42.170 --> 00:54:45.530
Alethea Felton: And that is my name up there, Alethea Felton.
00:54:45.850 --> 00:54:50.490
Alethea Felton: I'm also on Instagram, Instagram, Facebook, TikTok, I'm up there,
00:54:50.590 --> 00:54:55.470
Alethea Felton: but I don't have a huge presence on TikTok, but definitely Instagram, Facebook.
00:54:55.710 --> 00:55:00.430
Alethea Felton: In terms of the podcast, the Power Transformation Podcast, you can find that
00:55:00.430 --> 00:55:02.010
Alethea Felton: on all podcast platforms.
00:55:03.150 --> 00:55:10.250
Alethea Felton: Apple, iHeart, like everywhere, Spotify. And in September, it will be on YouTube as well.
00:55:10.430 --> 00:55:15.110
Alethea Felton: But for now it's on every platform and subscribe, follow.
00:55:15.310 --> 00:55:21.390
Alethea Felton: If you're an Apple user, please write a review so it can build traction and
00:55:21.390 --> 00:55:24.030
Alethea Felton: just get the word out. I interview everybody.
00:55:24.310 --> 00:55:29.210
Alethea Felton: I have interviewed everyone We went from CEOs of companies to New York Times
00:55:29.210 --> 00:55:37.170
Alethea Felton: bestselling authors, all the way to people that are on permanent disability in their life.
00:55:37.290 --> 00:55:40.010
Alethea Felton: I don't discriminate against who I interview.
00:55:40.170 --> 00:55:44.870
Alethea Felton: It's literally about people who have really had some amazing stories.
00:55:45.090 --> 00:55:50.350
Alethea Felton: And also, Kevin, on top of that, in terms of the public speaking event,
00:55:50.390 --> 00:55:57.230
Alethea Felton: I also want I want to acknowledge that I went to that event with my partner's
00:55:57.230 --> 00:55:59.370
Alethea Felton: significant other boyfriend,
00:55:59.770 --> 00:56:06.290
Alethea Felton: Brandon, who's been very supportive of me, along with my family and friends
00:56:06.290 --> 00:56:07.810
Alethea Felton: and things of that nature.
00:56:07.950 --> 00:56:12.030
Alethea Felton: But he stays behind the scenes a lot.
00:56:12.170 --> 00:56:18.610
Alethea Felton: But he, my parents, my sister, my immediate family, as well as some friends
00:56:18.610 --> 00:56:24.690
Alethea Felton: have been so supportive on my journey. And I'm very, very grateful for that.
00:56:25.010 --> 00:56:29.350
Kevin Lowe: Yeah, I love that. I mean, it's no doubt. I mean, it takes a village.
00:56:30.170 --> 00:56:36.150
Kevin Lowe: And, you know, we, life is tough enough, much less to try to do it all on your own.
00:56:37.050 --> 00:56:41.450
Kevin Lowe: And so I love that. And I will be sure that all of the information you mentioned,
00:56:41.550 --> 00:56:46.690
Kevin Lowe: all those links, everything is in the show notes for today's episode for easy access.
00:56:47.870 --> 00:56:52.890
Alethea Felton: Oh, wait a minute. Wait a minute, though. No, also y'all, Kevin is such a very,
00:56:53.735 --> 00:57:00.275
Alethea Felton: humble person. So you might not know this too, but I want you to please go to
00:57:00.275 --> 00:57:06.175
Alethea Felton: the Power Transformation podcast because Kevin is a past guest on my show.
00:57:06.395 --> 00:57:07.875
Alethea Felton: So listen to his episode.
00:57:08.015 --> 00:57:12.975
Kevin Lowe: Good mention. I'll be sure that's linked in the show notes also. Amazing.
00:57:13.195 --> 00:57:16.315
Alethea Felton: Yes. You had a phenomenal interview. Yeah.
00:57:16.395 --> 00:57:20.235
Kevin Lowe: Oh, well, I think you're absolutely phenomenal yourself.
00:57:20.495 --> 00:57:26.475
Kevin Lowe: And my last question, honestly, is looking back at this conversation today,
00:57:26.775 --> 00:57:32.415
Kevin Lowe: I mean, we've gone through the health struggles, the loss you've experienced,
00:57:32.635 --> 00:57:35.755
Kevin Lowe: but also the gain that you've gone through.
00:57:35.855 --> 00:57:40.095
Kevin Lowe: The idea of this cup of yours is just overflowing.
00:57:40.875 --> 00:57:47.695
Kevin Lowe: What, though, is the one thing that you hope the person listening today comes away with?
00:57:47.935 --> 00:57:53.795
Kevin Lowe: What is that one message that you hope that they remember about hearing your story?
00:57:54.095 --> 00:58:00.475
Alethea Felton: The one thing that I hope that people remember about my story is that regardless
00:58:00.475 --> 00:58:02.835
Alethea Felton: of what life brings your way,
00:58:03.055 --> 00:58:09.355
Alethea Felton: regardless of the obstacle set in your path to To thwart where you're supposed
00:58:09.355 --> 00:58:15.375
Alethea Felton: to go is to just keep moving forward, to keep going, to know and believe that
00:58:15.375 --> 00:58:17.535
Alethea Felton: you are worth every and anything,
00:58:17.775 --> 00:58:26.435
Alethea Felton: to embrace your self-worth, to trust in your creativity and your ideas.
00:58:26.435 --> 00:58:33.115
Alethea Felton: Us, but also know that you are here not by accident, but you are here for a
00:58:33.115 --> 00:58:38.415
Alethea Felton: reason and that sometimes it may be difficult understanding or seeing what that reason is.
00:58:38.655 --> 00:58:44.155
Alethea Felton: But regardless of your age, your socioeconomic status, your upbringing,
00:58:44.435 --> 00:58:48.435
Alethea Felton: your past does not necessarily determine your future.
00:58:48.635 --> 00:58:53.075
Alethea Felton: And so as long as you have breath in your lungs, you're able to still breathe,
00:58:53.315 --> 00:58:58.475
Alethea Felton: you're able to still communicate in some form, whatever form that is,
00:58:58.755 --> 00:59:05.035
Alethea Felton: realize that your being here is not by chance, but that you too have a story
00:59:05.035 --> 00:59:08.055
Alethea Felton: to share and can make an incredible difference.
00:59:08.375 --> 00:59:13.415
Alethea Felton: Avoid getting caught up in the comparison trap of thinking that your story isn't
00:59:13.415 --> 00:59:16.475
Alethea Felton: big enough or great enough. That's not the point.
00:59:16.555 --> 00:59:20.255
Alethea Felton: But the point is knowing that there is hope.
00:59:20.903 --> 00:59:26.963
Alethea Felton: No matter what you go through, walk away knowing who you are and walk away knowing
00:59:26.963 --> 00:59:32.603
Alethea Felton: that your life matters and you sincerely can make a difference.
00:59:32.703 --> 00:59:35.803
Alethea Felton: I know what it's like being at rock bottom.
00:59:35.923 --> 00:59:42.203
Alethea Felton: And while I didn't talk about a lot of the emotional turmoil I experienced, I get it.
00:59:42.243 --> 00:59:47.203
Alethea Felton: I know what it's like where you don't even want to wake up on the next day,
00:59:47.243 --> 00:59:52.263
Alethea Felton: but you know that you have to. I know what it's like being on bed rest and not
00:59:52.263 --> 00:59:53.303
Alethea Felton: being able to go anywhere.
00:59:53.543 --> 00:59:58.163
Alethea Felton: I know what it's like having people having to come and change you and and bathe
00:59:58.163 --> 01:00:01.583
Alethea Felton: you and just not being able to do anything on your own.
01:00:01.723 --> 01:00:06.343
Alethea Felton: And I just know what it's like to feel that you're so alone in the world.
01:00:06.503 --> 01:00:11.343
Alethea Felton: But then knowing that despite the rain that pours in your life,
01:00:11.443 --> 01:00:18.163
Alethea Felton: always remember that the sun is still shining brightly, even behind the clouds. Wow.
01:00:18.923 --> 01:00:23.963
Kevin Lowe: Alethea, thank you for just simply being you.
01:00:24.163 --> 01:00:32.623
Kevin Lowe: You are one of the most amazing, beautiful, shining people I've ever met.
01:00:32.823 --> 01:00:38.723
Kevin Lowe: And it's been just the utmost pleasure to have you here today. So thank you.
01:00:38.723 --> 01:00:45.443
Alethea Felton: Thank you, Kevin, for having me. And you are definitely a gift in my life.
01:00:45.523 --> 01:00:50.683
Alethea Felton: And I am so glad that our paths crossed and we'll definitely keep in touch.
01:00:51.663 --> 01:00:57.863
Kevin Lowe: Absolutely. And for you, my friend listening, hopefully you're smiling just
01:00:57.863 --> 01:01:04.003
Kevin Lowe: as big as I am because we just had a little bit of Aletheia in our life and
01:01:04.003 --> 01:01:06.163
Kevin Lowe: that makes it a better day.
01:01:06.163 --> 01:01:11.763
Kevin Lowe: So if you loved it if you liked it and you're thinking to yourself man i know
01:01:11.763 --> 01:01:15.603
Kevin Lowe: somebody who really needs to hear this well then be a good friend and share
01:01:15.603 --> 01:01:21.323
Kevin Lowe: it with them because you know sharing is caring anyways you enjoyed the day
01:01:21.323 --> 01:01:25.903
Kevin Lowe: have a great one and this is kevin with grit grace and inspiration
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