Have you ever been told you weren't good enough, strong enough, or capable of achieving your dreams? If so, today's episode is for you. Join us as we dive into the incredible story of Rahz "the Motivator" Slaughter, a man who defied all odds with the help of one awesome grandmother!
Who Is This For?
If you've ever faced doubts or discouragement, whether from others or within yourself, this episode sheds light on overcoming these challenges. It's perfect for anyone looking for motivation and tools to turn doubts into stepping stones towards their goals.
What's It All About?
In this episode, Rahz Slaughter shares his journey from being born with a physical disability to becoming a motivational speaker and fitness trainer. Rahz's story is a testament to resilience, determination, and the power of a supportive community. With heartfelt anecdotes and actionable advice, Rahz inspires listeners to push past their limitations and embrace their unique strengths.
Some Key Takeaways:
- Learn how to transform perceived limitations into strengths and advantages in your personal and professional life.
- Discover the power of mindset shifts and how they can propel you towards achieving your dreams.
- Gain practical strategies for building resilience and staying motivated even in the face of adversity.
Don't miss this opportunity to be inspired, empowered, and encouraged by one of the most amazing guys you will ever meet!
Mentioned Links & Resources
- Student Success Secrets on Amazon
- The Unstoppable Teenager Website
- FREE Coaching ALL Summer Long! Grab your spot ASAP! Either Text 'Summer2024' to 33-777 or simply CLICK HERE to reserve your spot!
- Follow Rahz Slaughter on Facebook, Instagram, and LinkedIn
Today’s Awesome Guest
Rahz “The Motivator" Slaughter is a youth motivational speaker who has spent years helping students and teens improve their mindsets and take charge of their lives. Born with a disability and raised by a single mother who suffered from addiction, he was told countless times that he had limitations, that there would be things that he could not do, be, or achieve. Despite these messages, Rahz was unstoppable and set out to create a life of his doing and not what others expected of him.
Today, Rahz Slaughter is a motivational speaker and successful business owner. He is also an athlete, personal trainer, nutritionist, and coach. He has spent over 20 years in the fitness business, coaching and motivating people to make better life choices and improve their health. He was told that he could not body build or train others, but he ignored that and went on to win second place in a National Amateur Body Building Association competition and has coached thousands of people to greatness. Rahz especially finds great joy and fulfillment in shaping and motivating the mindsets of youth, particularly those who are "at-risk" or have difficult life circumstances.
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Show Notes
Have you ever been told you weren't good enough, strong enough, or capable of achieving your dreams? If so, today's episode is for you. Join us as we dive into the incredible story of Rahz "the Motivator" Slaughter, a man who defied all odds with the help of one awesome grandmother!
Who Is This For?
If you've ever faced doubts or discouragement, whether from others or within yourself, this episode sheds light on overcoming these challenges. It's perfect for anyone looking for motivation and tools to turn doubts into stepping stones towards their goals.
What's It All About?
In this episode, Rahz Slaughter shares his journey from being born with a physical disability to becoming a motivational speaker and fitness trainer. Rahz's story is a testament to resilience, determination, and the power of a supportive community. With heartfelt anecdotes and actionable advice, Rahz inspires listeners to push past their limitations and embrace their unique strengths.
Some Key Takeaways:
- Learn how to transform perceived limitations into strengths and advantages in your personal and professional life.
- Discover the power of mindset shifts and how they can propel you towards achieving your dreams.
- Gain practical strategies for building resilience and staying motivated even in the face of adversity.
Don't miss this opportunity to be inspired, empowered, and encouraged by one of the most amazing guys you will ever meet!
Mentioned Links & Resources
- Student Success Secrets on Amazon
- The Unstoppable Teenager Website
- FREE Coaching ALL Summer Long! Grab your spot ASAP! Either Text 'Summer2024' to 33-777 or simply CLICK HERE to reserve your spot!
- Follow Rahz Slaughter on Facebook, Instagram, and LinkedIn
Today’s Awesome Guest
Rahz “The Motivator" Slaughter is a youth motivational speaker who has spent years helping students and teens improve their mindsets and take charge of their lives. Born with a disability and raised by a single mother who suffered from addiction, he was told countless times that he had limitations, that there would be things that he could not do, be, or achieve. Despite these messages, Rahz was unstoppable and set out to create a life of his doing and not what others expected of him.
Today, Rahz Slaughter is a motivational speaker and successful business owner. He is also an athlete, personal trainer, nutritionist, and coach. He has spent over 20 years in the fitness business, coaching and motivating people to make better life choices and improve their health. He was told that he could not body build or train others, but he ignored that and went on to win second place in a National Amateur Body Building Association competition and has coached thousands of people to greatness. Rahz especially finds great joy and fulfillment in shaping and motivating the mindsets of youth, particularly those who are "at-risk" or have difficult life circumstances.
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Show Transcript
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Have you ever had somebody tell you that you can't or that you weren't good
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enough, that you weren't fast enough, you weren't strong enough?
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There's no way that you could keep up. There's no way that you're going to join the team.
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There's no way that you're ever going to accomplish this big goal that you say you have.
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If you've ever had somebody tell you that you weren't able to do something,
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that you you weren't good enough or strong enough?
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Well, today's episode is for you.
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I have in the studio today, Rahz the Motivator Slaughter, a guy who was born
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with a physical disability and he is no stranger to challenges.
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But what's awesome about Rahz is the fact that with the help of one awesome grandmother,
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he defied those challenges.
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He broke through the barriers and now he's here to motivate you to do the same.
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Today's episode is going to leave you feeling all kinds of good,
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smiling a little bigger, feeling a little more positive, a little bit more inspired,
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empowered to get out there and just make the most of this day.
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This, my friend, is episode 298. This is my interview with Rahz Slaughter.
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Yo, are you ready to flip the script on life? Because those bad days,
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they're just doors to better days and that's exactly
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what we do here at grit grace and inspiration your
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host kevin low he's been flipping the script on his
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own life turning over 20 years of being completely blind into straight up inspiration
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motivation and encouragement just for you so kick back relax and let me introduce
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you to your host kevin low you my friend are so
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lucky that you are right here inside of today's episode number 298. Why?
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Well, because I'm in the studio with one of the coolest guys I have ever met,
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and that is Rahz Slaughter.
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Now, maybe not quite to his level of awesomeness, but still pretty darn cool,
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is the fact that I'm offering free coaching all summer long.
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It's part of my sizzling summer special, in which you can book a free 30-minute
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No obligation, no sales pitch at the end. It's totally free.
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It's me just wanting to be a help to you to get clear on your goals,
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to figure out where you want to go, what's standing in the way,
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and to map out a plan to get you there.
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With that my friend i turn it over to the awesome guy of the hour Rahz slaughter
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i was born with my right leg shorted in the other no quadriceps or hamstring
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on that right leg so for the listeners i have a three and a half inch difference
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in length between my right and my left leg as an adult.
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But as a baby, I was premature.
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And when my mother, we were going through delivery, my right hip was pulled
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out of socket pretty much. So they had to reposition my leg.
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And I believe that that was probably the catalyst to some of the dysfunction
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in this right leg, which led to the rest of my life.
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I mean, I had an upbringing just like most people, but I was challenged because
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right from the get-go, I was on the little short bus going to school,
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starting kindergarten.
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And kids made fun of me. I had crutches. I had funny shoes, all of the different
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things that anyone who has a disability,
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and I say disability for those who think about a disability,
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but I feel like my disability turned into my ability, my ability to just really
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focus on when someone tells me I can't, I must.
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And it started at that early age when I was born with this dysfunctional leg.
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Wow, that is so interesting.
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Now, as you would grow older, would it get worse or get better?
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Pretty much from the time I was about, I'd say five to 12 was some tough years.
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I had one surgery, which was totally a experiment.
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Doctor just basically cut my leg on both sides, right and left side laterally.
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And they just inserted two pins.
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And I had a cast for about three months. Did nothing for my leg at all.
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All it did was make me miss some school, which didn't push me back a little bit further.
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I wound up getting left back. And that was the beginning of some learning challenges
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that I would have to overcome as an adult.
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At 12, I was blessed to go to the Shriners Hospital in Springfield,
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Mass., where I had the second surgery, which was called the Alizaroth.
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And this Alizarov, for those who are listening, I had several rings with straight
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pins through my leg, right through the bone.
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And the goal of this apparatus was to straighten my leg and then lengthen it
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so that the doctor told my mother that I was going to be just like all the other kids.
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And I tell you, after six months of going through that painful surgery,
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every day they turn this little crank and it straightened my leg just a little
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bit and straightened my leg just a little bit.
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And they do this surgery because at this time I haven't gone through puberty
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yet. So I'm still going through the growth process.
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And they told my mother I was going to be normal. And at six months,
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my mom comes to visit me and doctor's there and he's got a big grin on his face
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like, Like, oh, this was such a success.
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And my young self asked the doctor one really critical question.
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So, doc, now that my leg is straight, how will it stay that way?
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What do you think he said, Kev? I don't. He says, well, he goes,
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well, you're going to have to wear a brace. Yes.
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And I asked him, I said, for how long? For the rest of your life.
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Now, I don't know about you, but that didn't sound like normal.
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That didn't seem like all the other kids. And if you've ever saw that great
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movie, Forrest Gump, those were the braces that he was talking about.
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No way. Oh, my God. And I was like, I mean, I'm getting picked on with crutches.
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I'm getting made fun of. I'm not able to do gym class with the kids.
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I'm like, you give me these braces on my leg. I am really going to have a tough time.
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So I he gave me the gift of two weeks to go visit my grandmother in Long Island,
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New York, and to take a break between surgeries, because the second part of
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the surgery is now the lengthening of my leg that they got it straight.
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And my grandmother, who is God bless her soul, is probably one of the wisest
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women I've ever met in my life, told me, she said, God made you this way,
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son, and you should stay this way.
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And those are the words that hit home for me at, and I just turned 13 and I've
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never had another surgery on my leg since because I truly believe that if this
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was my destiny, this is the way I was gonna live.
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And I went on to do some other amazing things, whether it's the athletics or
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working out, fitness, and we'll share with them a little bit of that later.
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But that is really the early years of my story of going through those two surgeries,
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those two major surgeries and coming to the epiphany that, you know what,
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we all have disabilities.
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We all have things that are a little bit different, but we have to embrace them
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and embrace those challenges so that we can move forward in life. Yeah.
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You know, God bless our grandmothers. Yeah.
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Absolutely. Yeah, man. Okay. So I have so many questions.
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So my first question is, so continuing on, the leg was now straight.
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Did it end up remaining straight even though you didn't wear the braces?
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Absolutely not. it went right back to the way it was.
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And I love that you shared that question because as over the years,
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it pretty much, I mean, I became well-versed in biomechanics and human anatomy.
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And I learned that it was a failure from the start.
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And that question that I asked the doctor purely was some inspired question.
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I don't even know how I came up with it at that age, but now knowing that you
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have to have a quad and a hamstring to have the knee flex and extend. in.
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And so it went right back. But what I will tell you is that that leg is, has been strong.
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I have a strong right glute and my lower back is tight at times,
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but it just functions in it. And we adapt.
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And that's something that I share with people all the time, whether it's speaking
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or coaching is that we have the ability to adapt to our, our surroundings.
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So our bodies can adapt and we can actually embrace those challenges and become
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stronger in other areas if we're willing to do the work. Yeah, absolutely.
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So now like today, are you able to walk on that leg?
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Absolutely. I walk, I ride a bike. I just finished riding a hundred miles for
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the multiple sclerosis ride here in South Florida.
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I work out five to six days a week. I've been a bodybuilder for the last 25 years.
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And I don't believe that the leg has stopped me from doing anything in this
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world that I want to do. Wow, wow, wow, wow. That is incredible.
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Last question about the leg, because this is just crazy.
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So as an adult, how much shorter is it than your other leg?
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So I'd like to say that I'm standing at six foot four now.
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I am a strong five foot three man with a three and a half inch difference in my right and my left leg.
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My left leg functions 100 percent perfect.
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And God bless that. That's the strong leg. I always say I have one good wheel. Yes.
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Amazing. So do you do you have like something with your shoes that helps to balance it out?
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No, I walk on my toes. so I never liked
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that the Herman Munster boot I had
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it when I was younger yeah and if you
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guys I mean we're all probably the same age so a lot of the listeners will
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understand that I never wanted that it made it very hard for me to do the things
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that I wanted to do as a kid I wanted to run and jump and and do and ride my
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bike and things and having that big plastic piece on the shoe inhibited that
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so I've never gone back to that I will share with the listeners that because
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Because I walk on my toe and I've run,
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I don't run as much anymore because I don't want to put that much wear and tear on the body.
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I do understand that we don't get a set. I can't go in for an oil change.
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So, you know, I do have a little arthritis in my right toe, which hurts at times.
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But, hey, you know what? A little pain for some gain is no problem with me.
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Yeah, absolutely, dude. So going back to your story, you spent that time with
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your grandmother. mother.
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You guys had this massive kind of epiphany,
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You reset your mindset. From there, I have two questions.
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I'm going to ask you both questions and you can go from there.
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My first question is, I know in my own situation, sometimes grandparents' ideas
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of what we should be doing is different than our parents.
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And so I'm curious when you went back home, what maybe your mom or dad or whoever
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thought about this idea? and then just kind of understanding how life as a kid went from there.
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As a parent and adult right now, I can tell you that my mother allowed me to make that decision.
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And it was a decision that I don't think she had a lot of knowledge and understanding
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of, but she could see the conviction.
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And like I said, my grandmother told me when she said those words that God made
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you this way and you're going to stay that way, there was no one on this planet
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that could have got me under the knife again.
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So it really wasn't a conversation. It was more of a conviction in it.
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Hey, this is what's going to happen.
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It's my body. It's my leg. And I'm blessed that my mom was willing to allow
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me to to make that very mature decision at the young age of 12 and a half, 13. Yeah. Okay. Okay.
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Amazing. Way to go, mom. I love it. So, so now getting back to you as a kid,
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I mean, cause you're still a kid.
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I mean, even though you're pursuing forward, you have something quote unquote wrong with you.
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I'm curious how it went the rest of kind of time in school.
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I mean, as far as bullying or you just doing life, how did it go?
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Yeah. So I wound up moving from upstate New York, living with my mother to living
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with my grandmother. After that decision, I wanted to be in Long Island.
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I just saw that it was a great opportunity for me to learn. They had more resources
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for me, things like that.
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So I started school that year in New York, in Long Island, and it started all
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over again. I mean, a new school, very affluent area on Long Island,
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and kids were kids, you know, they were a little bit mean.
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I wasn't as financially as fortunate as a lot of them.
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But what I will share is that the school district did a very good job at at
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least making sure that I didn't feel so disjointed.
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Being I was the only African-American student in the class at that time with
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a disability, they did the best they could.
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And then when I wanted to play sports, they tried to block me.
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So then my grandmother and I found a way around that by signing a letter at
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that time saying that we would not
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hold them responsible for anything that happened to me by playing sports.
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So then I was able to participate in gym and play soccer and do all the things
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that I wanted to do as a young boy, just kind of going through time. Yeah.
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Wow, wow, wow. Dude, that's incredible.
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Again, way to go, Grandma. I love it so much.
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Now, you talked about getting really big into fitness and stuff.
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When did that really take place?
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So I, it started pretty much about eighth grade and I saw, I got to see you
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and we all saw Arnold and, and all of those movies.
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And I learned that, you know, I said, if I'm going to have this disability,
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why not try to build the strongest body possible?
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And I had a, luckily I had a coach who was a wrestling coach and a track coach at the time.
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And he said, Hey, you know, you look like you could really do great things in the wrestling room.
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And at that time, I still believed that I I was going to be in the NBA.
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So I was like, well, I want to play basketball. Well, he let me have that dream until I got cut.
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And then he came back to me and said, hey, you know, you might be good in the wrestling room.
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And I could do some pull ups because I had crutches as a young kid.
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So my upper body had already started to develop.
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And I got into the weight room and I started to work out right then.
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And I've never stopped working out since I was 13. I worked out this morning at 6 a.m. Wow.
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That's incredible. man. Yeah. Wow. And so when you leading up into like the
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age of graduating school and stuff, I mean, what did you have plans to do after school?
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Yeah. So I got into wrestling and I became wrestling was that number one thing for me.
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School wasn't the thing because at that time I was struggling with academics
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because I was dyslexic and ADHD and I was undiagnosed.
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So when I didn't read a book really all throughout high school because I skipped
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the words because I couldn't comprehend and pronunciate them.
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And that struggle got me to have a wonderful 1.62 GPA leaving high school.
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So I was an academic gimmick, not star.
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Oh, my goodness. Yes. So so I'm assuming you maybe didn't have college plans when growing up along.
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Everybody was going to college. So I said, hey, that's just what I need to do.
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And I was blessed to luckily to have the wrestling.
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I got into college, went to that that big school that you shouldn't go to when
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you don't have anybody to tell you this is not the way to to go.
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Don't go sign all these papers and get all these loans.
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But I recognized quickly that I should go to junior college after signing up
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originally at a D1 school and putting myself in some deep debt, got out.
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And then about a year and a half into my college years of wrestling,
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I found myself financially strapped and I had to make a decision.
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Should I take care of my grandmother, get a job and do the things that I knew I needed to do?
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Or should I try to keep struggling in school. I dropped out of college at that point.
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And I started working and my first job was a personal trainer.
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Okay, so that's where that begins.
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Interesting. Yeah. Well, so I am curious about the personal trainer job because,
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you know, I mean, you mentioned, you know, you're only five foot three.
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We've talked about this issue with your leg.
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How was that being a trainer with with the people that you are working with?
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Would they gain inspiration from you?
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Would they be kind of in disbelief? Anything like that?
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Yeah. The first job I went to get, I remember a buddy of mine who was the most
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unathletic male on the planet.
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And he was a personal trainer.
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And his uncle was a the head manager there, the facility manager.
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So I'm like, oh, I know he can be a trainer. I can be a trainer.
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I went over, asked for the job, signed it. And he said, oh, we're not hiring right now.
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Now, I knew at that minute that he was bullshitting me.
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And the fact of the matter is that he basically was saying, hey,
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you know, you could work the front desk.
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And I took that job. I worked the front desk. I learned everybody's first name,
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last name, kid's name, everything. thing.
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And within a short period of time, people were seeing me at the gym. I became a gym rat.
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I was working out consistently, hanging there out and helping everybody in sight.
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Everybody who had a question, everybody who was struggling.
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And before you knew it, I had built up a pretty good name for myself as someone
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who could contribute and share inspiration when it came to their body and their fitness.
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And I had a full book within probably about four months.
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Wow. How long did you end up sticking with that? Yeah, I stayed at that first
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location for about a year and a half.
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And then I took the leap of faith and decided that I was going to join a gym
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in Manhattan because that's where, you know, the big money was.
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That's where all the celebrities and actors and athletes were.
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And I went in and got that my first job in New York Sports Club.
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And the rest is history, man. I fell in love with the human body.
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I fell in love with helping people transform their minds, understanding that
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if you were going to transform your body, it first started with the six inches between your ears.
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You're not going to do anything to your body if you don't believe in it.
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