#322: Break Free from Life's Never-Ending Hamster Wheel! Gain the Inspiration to Create an Exciting & Fulfilling Life

Kevin Lowe: Or maybe you're on that never ending hamster wheel of life with one day blending into another.

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Kevin Lowe: Before you know it, the year is gone. But what if you had the power to change that right now, right here?

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Kevin Lowe: Yeah, that's what today is about.

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Kevin Lowe: I'll be exploring an idea with you to have you changing this. For you taking control of your own destiny.

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Kevin Lowe: That's all right here, right now, inside of episode 322.

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Speaker1: Yo, are you ready to flip the script on life because 00:00:53.557 --: 00:00:56.877 those bad days they're just doors to better days and 00:00:56.877 --: 00:00:59.817 that's exactly what we do here at grit grace and 00:00:59.817 --: 00:01:04.257 inspiration your host kevin lowe he's been flipping the script on his own life 00:01:04.257 --: 00:01:08.777 turning over 20 years of being completely blind into straight up inspiration 00:01:08.777 --: 00:01:14.617 motivation and encouragement just for you so kick back relax and let me introduce

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Speaker1: you to your host kevin lowe My friend, 00:01:18.557 --: 00:01:21.917

Kevin Lowe: Welcome back to another episode here on the podcast.

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Kevin Lowe: Today, we're diving into the idea of taking control of your own life, of your destiny.

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Kevin Lowe: By the end, you'll discover how to break free of the past, make bold decisions, 00:01:37.877 --: 00:01:42.197 and start creating the life that you want to live.

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Kevin Lowe: Today's topic was inspired by the amazing journey of Tochtem Thomas.

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Kevin Lowe: Talkdown was featured in our previous episode. An amazing woman who at a very 00:01:56.177 --: 00:02:01.937 young age realized that she was not where she was meant to be.

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Kevin Lowe: And she made some difficult decisions.

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Kevin Lowe: Decisions that I don't know that we as adults have the courage to make.

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Kevin Lowe: But as just a young child, she did. If you did not hear her story, 00:02:16.637 --: 00:02:21.737 I highly encourage you to go back and listen. That was episode 321.

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Kevin Lowe: I'll be sure that a link is left inside of today's show notes to make things easy on you.

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Kevin Lowe: So if Taktum could turn her life around by taking control of her destiny, 00:02:33.137 --: 00:02:37.357 then why can't we do the same for you, for me?

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Kevin Lowe: And that's exactly what today is about.

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Kevin Lowe: For my perfectionists, for my planners, I want you to realize that when we're 00:02:49.872 --: 00:02:53.412 talking about this idea of taking control of your own destiny, 00:02:53.592 --: 00:02:57.152 it's not about you waiting for the perfect time.

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Kevin Lowe: Are you waiting until you have all the answers?

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Kevin Lowe: It's about messy action. It's about you taking action, even when the road ahead is unclear.

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Kevin Lowe: This is about realizing that your past does not dictate your future.

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Kevin Lowe: And that every choice you make from this day forward is moving you towards the 00:03:19.192 --: 00:03:22.112 life that you want, the life that you were made for.

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Kevin Lowe: So the question is, how do you begin to take control to accomplish this monumental task?

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Kevin Lowe: It all begins with one simple question.

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Kevin Lowe: What do I truly want? Not what do others want for me, not what I think I should 00:03:40.172 --: 00:03:45.252 want, but what do you want? What do you want out of life? Who do you want to be?

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Kevin Lowe: What do you want your life to 00:03:47.232 --: 00:03:52.032 be? You don't have to fall victim to what society tells you it should be.

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Kevin Lowe: You don't have to fall victim to social media, letting you believe that life 00:03:59.112 --: 00:04:00.852 needs to look this way or that.

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Kevin Lowe: No, I'm literally talking to you. What do you want your life to be?

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Kevin Lowe: Are you looking for the freedom to go and do as you please?

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Kevin Lowe: Are you looking for stability with a career that you love, but also one that 00:04:17.032 --: 00:04:20.952 you know is going to be there to help you support you and your family?

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Kevin Lowe: What is it that you, yourself, truly want?

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Kevin Lowe: Once you have that clear, and I'm talking crystal clear, then the next step 00:04:32.532 --: 00:04:34.492 is to make a commitment to yourself.

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Kevin Lowe: You have to decide that no matter what, you will take the actions to move towards that vision.

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Kevin Lowe: We're talking about the life that you want here. We're talking about something 00:04:47.892 --: 00:04:51.552 really monumental. mental. We're talking about your future.

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Kevin Lowe: So many times we just get caught up in life and we forget the fact that we only 00:04:58.392 --: 00:05:00.112 get one chance at this life.

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Kevin Lowe: So why aren't we making the most of every single moment we are here on earth?

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Kevin Lowe: Because in the big picture, all the little stuff that we deal with on a day-to-day, 00:05:13.152 --: 00:05:18.592 all the stuff we worry about, if you think about it in the big picture of life, 00:05:18.592 --: 00:05:20.652 It's really not that important.

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Kevin Lowe: Instead, what's important is being sure that you enjoy your time here on earth, 00:05:28.934 --: 00:05:31.994 that you leave an impact if you want to leave an impact, 00:05:32.234 --: 00:05:36.194 that you are remembered for the things that you want to be remembered for, 00:05:36.314 --: 00:05:40.474 for a person, for a woman who lives her life out loud.

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Kevin Lowe: Again, first step, what do you really want out of life? Second step is making 00:05:47.954 --: 00:05:54.734 the commitment to yourself, promising yourself that you're going to pursue that vision.

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Kevin Lowe: For Taktum Thomas, it wasn't easy. It wasn't quick.

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Kevin Lowe: She literally left behind everything she knew in pursuit of something more.

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Kevin Lowe: Taktum, she continued to take small steps, continuous steps.

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Kevin Lowe: Even when she had to make some decisions that were really tough, 00:06:16.454 --: 00:06:23.414 like to leave her family, to embark on a new adventure, a new world of the unknown.

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Kevin Lowe: Because all of that she knew was bringing her closer to the life she envisioned.

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Kevin Lowe: You, my friend, you can do the same. I want you to realize that you deserve 00:06:36.814 --: 00:06:39.494 to have everything you want in this life.

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Kevin Lowe: You deserve to be the person that you want to be. You deserve greatness.

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Kevin Lowe: Then it's all about taking those small steps, all moving towards your goal, 00:06:51.974 --: 00:06:54.654 towards the vision that you want for your life.

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Kevin Lowe: And that doesn't mean that the road is going to be easy.

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Kevin Lowe: No, quite possibly it's going to be really tough because anything that we want 00:07:06.614 --: 00:07:11.694 in life that's really valuable, we really have to work at it.

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Kevin Lowe: Think about back when you were a kid, when you wanted something really nice, 00:07:16.674 --: 00:07:20.754 whatever it was, maybe the newest bicycle when you were a kid, 00:07:20.894 --: 00:07:22.314 the coolest new skateboard.

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Kevin Lowe: And it was too expensive for your parents just to bust out the wallet and pay for you.

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Kevin Lowe: No, they made you earn the money yourself.

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Kevin Lowe: And so you worked for it. You mowed the lawn.

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Kevin Lowe: You washed the cars. You did the chores to earn the money so that you could buy that yourself.

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Kevin Lowe: Again, the road, it's not easy. And if it is easy, then that probably means 00:07:50.546 --: 00:07:53.226 that your dream isn't big enough.

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Kevin Lowe: I want you to remember that taking control of your life, of your destiny, 00:07:58.566 --: 00:08:02.126 it's not about perfection. It's about progress.

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Kevin Lowe: It's about making the choice every day when you wake up to move forward, no matter what.

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Kevin Lowe: You, my friend, you have the strength to overcome your circumstances.

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Kevin Lowe: Now, I understand life is tough and I understand sometimes we feel stuck and 00:08:20.906 --: 00:08:23.666 maybe for a little little bit of time. Maybe we are.

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Kevin Lowe: Maybe you are. But there comes a point when you're not stuck, 00:08:28.346 --: 00:08:35.466 when you can make a decision, even if it's a hard decision, to move forward, to get unstuck.

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Kevin Lowe: And just like Tocqueville, you have the strength to overcome your circumstances.

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Kevin Lowe: Now, I understand that sometimes we're in a situation in life that is difficult.

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Kevin Lowe: And yeah, maybe for a period of time, you're stuck in it.

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Kevin Lowe: It's just kind of how life is. But then there comes a point when you know that 00:08:58.723 --: 00:09:02.823 you are ready to move forward, that you're ready to overcome it.

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Kevin Lowe: You're ready to break down the barriers.

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Kevin Lowe: You're ready to keep moving forward in life. When you're ready for that, 00:09:10.003 --: 00:09:15.883 that's when you're ready to create a life that you're excited about, that lights you up.

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Kevin Lowe: Because remember, if you're the artist and you're painting the picture of your 00:09:21.423 --: 00:09:26.063 future, don't you want to paint the most beautiful painting you've ever seen?

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Kevin Lowe: Of course you do. So if you are the creator of your destiny, of your future, 00:09:34.683 --: 00:09:40.343 then you better be darn sure that you're creating a future that you want, 00:09:40.563 --: 00:09:42.083 that you're excited about.

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Kevin Lowe: That word, excited, excitement, it's something that I feel like isn't focused on enough in life.

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Kevin Lowe: Maybe it is for children, but as adults, it's almost like excitement.

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Kevin Lowe: Oh my goodness, that's just for kids. But my friend, no, it is for all of us. You need to have a life.

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Kevin Lowe: You need to have goals, dreams, ideas that get you excited, that you wake up 00:10:09.063 --: 00:10:14.103 in the morning with excitement running through your veins for what you are about 00:10:14.103 --: 00:10:17.303 to do that day, what you are working towards.

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Kevin Lowe: Now, I want you to remember this. It starts small. So what I mean is as you 00:10:23.643 --: 00:10:25.063 go throughout your day today, day.

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Kevin Lowe: I want you to think about one part of your life that you can start taking control of.

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Kevin Lowe: What area of your life do you feel like you're out of control?

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Kevin Lowe: What area of life do you need more focus, more direction?

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Kevin Lowe: Maybe that's the best place for you to start. Then identify the next step you 00:10:47.234 --: 00:10:52.454 can take that is going to be moving you closer to that life you envision, 00:10:52.674 --: 00:10:56.494 to your ultimate destiny, to where you want life to be.

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Kevin Lowe: This is about you being in the driver's seat of life, my friend. You are in control.

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Kevin Lowe: The whole thing, but today is I just want so many times here on the podcast 00:11:08.694 --: 00:11:15.994 to just remind you that there's so much more to life than any of us think, 00:11:16.154 --: 00:11:19.754 that there's so much more to you than you believe. leave.

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Kevin Lowe: And that ultimately, I believe that you deserve all that you want in this life.

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Kevin Lowe: I said that earlier today, and I've said it in many episodes, because I believe it.

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Kevin Lowe: I believe that so many times that you, me, we all seem to forget about our dreams.

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Kevin Lowe: We seem to put away way there's big ideas.

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Kevin Lowe: But here, I want to be that inspiration to have you dreaming big.

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Kevin Lowe: To thinking like a child, thinking of the possibilities with no negativity in sight.

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Kevin Lowe: This is your life. You only get one chance at it.

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Kevin Lowe: So my friend, I hope, I pray that you make it account.

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Kevin Lowe: Until next time, I'm your host, Kevin Lowe, and this was another episode of 00:12:11.734 --: 00:12:13.514 Grit, Grace, and Inspiration.

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